continuing from yesterday!
In a relationship or marriage what is acceptable as far as going with each other and friends? Acceptable time to be home? How ofter should we go out as a couple? How often should we hang out with our friends?
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Well it really depends on the couple. I don't care if my guy hangs out with his friends on the reg. But now if he is spending more time with them than me...well now that may be a situation! But i think everyone needs their "me" time. Coming home at 5am...ah negative! I mean be respectful of your mate.
I am down with whatever wifey says today. I dont want no beef. LOL
If you aren't gonna be home until 5:00am, let it be known before you leave the house, that way everyone is clear that you will be out late, and please, call and remind your mate that you are still alive...before 4:30. Obviously you are going to do more couple things than hanging out with ya friends, so it sounds to me like your friends need to understand their time is getting reduced more than your mate needs to know they are a time increase.
A good rule of thumb would be Grey's Anatomy + Desperate Housewives + any reality show (i.e. Dancing With the Stars, American Idol, I Love New York, etc) = 1 Football Sunday.
I think this is the problem with relationships in todays society. People trying to control things. If you have a relationship based on trust and understanding. These things are a la carte as in decide and act when needed. You got two grown folk ina relationship. They should know better. You know when you spending too much time out or with someone other than your significant other.
I think the rules should be set up front. 5am is a bite excessive, lets keep it real nothing is open at the time.
I think 1 day a weekend (FRIDAY - SUNDAY) is couple day, then oneday is my day and the other we can chill or if its football seanson I get the 1st half of Sunday.. LOL..
If yall have kids 1 day is family time.
I think sunday is ok for football for the guys as long as we can have a family meal at some point(Hey I Like to watch it too). maybe some one on one time at least once a week. The same for his friends...i wouldn't trip even if he hung with the guys twice that wk. As long as you give me time too.
The me time is important if you
want to stay sane, lol!
But its all communication not assumption...
What is acceptable depends on what you and your partner agree on BEFOREHAND!
No gathering place in ATL even stays open til the wee hours of the morning...like NYC. So when the club shuts down bout 2am or 3am, your partner should be home within the hour and if they gonna stop at Waffle House...then they should make a phone call and state just that.
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