Insight

I want to hear from some of the men out here in the world.... Why is it that so many woman have to teach men how to do the basic things... Like take out the trash or clean the house or open the car door. Do you guys feel that this something that woman shouldnt want these days like is shivery dead?

What happen to people like my father who took care of everything in the home. I mean cut the

grass fixed the cars, maintaned the home. Just all of these things, and I feel today that this is

something hard to find in BLACK men. I see it in other cultures but somewhere we are out of

the loop.

Swingers

Question?

If you and your husband just wanna hit the swingers club just.... to see whats going on but in the process somebody asking your better half if they wanna join in would you be mad if he or she accepted the offer?

Titles

I was talking with my friend the other day and he stated that having a title is overrated.  Whats the point of being boyfriend,girlfriend, nobody really believe in that stuff any more anyway. I was like wow.... so do you think that the older we become we look at things in a different light... I mean I do feel funny sometimes saying this is my boyfriend so so an so.... Are we all really just dating until we have  ring?

What did your parents tell you about sex?

How did you parents talk to you about having sex?

Teens and Vibrators

What age is good for a parent to talk w/their child about self masterbation and vibrators? There has been a lot of talk on news and Oprah that 13 is a good age to introduce girls.

Should the man pay for everything

My mother stated that she blames the women of today for the way man act and treate woman.... She told me that there should never be time when in your courtship that you should pay for anything.  If the man wants to date you or take you out he needs to have the means to do so..

It shouldnt be oh ill pay this time or whatever... I so disagree

Man dont wanna get married

Why do men want to kids and live with you but dont want to be married. Whats up with that?

Should people change you

If people never give you back in return what you dish out should you give your givien spirit.... Or  do you just say GOD will bless me in other ways

Teaching Fellas how to prevent women stalkers

1. Fellas if you do it at her house. Fight the urge to FALL ASLEEP after you get a good one. Give her the homegirl pat on her back, kiss on the cheek and BOUNCE. If at your house, be sure to undress her in one spot. No need spending 20 mins looking for undies wrapped in covers. Advise her to text you when she gets home.

Teachable moment: If the sex was good and your feeling sensitive, you rejected her; she will not want to kiss you. One less stalker in your life

2. Don't.. I mean NEVER ask HOW WAS IT. If she ask how was it. Say"It was decent". Don't call send a one word text "sup"

Teachable moment: You are teaching her not to call at will and your not her man.

3. If she says "I don't normally do this" give her the dry "OK". If she ask "Do you think i'm a hoe" Response, "No, I didn't pay for you"

Teachable moment: If she feels bad it her self esteem not yours. Don't buy into the because your special crap.