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Yes I do believe that some people are in your love for a season.
I remember one of my best friends in college we really don't speak much now these but I will have to say she was the best friend a person could ask for in that time in my life she had my back at all times.
She was the person that was with me when I had to face growing up I was 17 in college and really had been sheltered from the world so she was my help mate with men and just dealing simple stuff like having a real job for the first time.
So sometimes I think people are in your life to help you grow. In some ways they mold you into being the person that you are.
Yeah, you can have friends for a season. I have/had several people I would consider close friends that over time I have grown away from. I will speak to them on occassion, but neither of us makes it a priority to stay in contact. It is the nature of life, as you grow up, you can out grown people, just like you outgrown clothes. doesn't make them any less of a friend or person, it happens.
I do believe most friends are there only for a season, but thats because we flock to people like us. Depending on what is going on in out life, determines the people we allow into our lives. In most cases once we have passed that challenge, both people move on.
Right after my divorce, after being married for 14yrs, I was out of touch with the dating game etc, I met this dude and he was a beast with the women and us getting out together made my transition into single life easier and more fun.
Well of course ppl come into our lives for a season and a reason. I have come across many many ppl that have affected my life in postive and negative ways. In all situations I have taken something from it. The challenge is knowing when to let go and taking in the msg you are to receive.
Absolutely .. I think that it has a lot to do with the process of growing and changing. The people that I hang out with now except for 2-3 are not the same people that were in my life when I was a teenager because of my personal development.
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Yes I do believe that some people are in your love for a season.
I remember one of my best friends in college we really don't speak much now these but I will have to say she was the best friend a person could ask for in that time in my life she had my back at all times.
She was the person that was with me when I had to face growing up I was 17 in college and really had been sheltered from the world so she was my help mate with men and just dealing simple stuff like having a real job for the first time.
So sometimes I think people are in your life to help you grow. In some ways they mold you into being the person that you are.
Yeah, you can have friends for a season. I have/had several people I would consider close friends that over time I have grown away from. I will speak to them on occassion, but neither of us makes it a priority to stay in contact. It is the nature of life, as you grow up, you can out grown people, just like you outgrown clothes. doesn't make them any less of a friend or person, it happens.
I do believe most friends are there only for a season, but thats because we flock to people like us. Depending on what is going on in out life, determines the people we allow into our lives. In most cases once we have passed that challenge, both people move on.
Right after my divorce, after being married for 14yrs, I was out of touch with the dating game etc, I met this dude and he was a beast with the women and us getting out together made my transition into single life easier and more fun.
Well of course ppl come into our lives for a season and a reason. I have come across many many ppl that have affected my life in postive and negative ways. In all situations I have taken something from it. The challenge is knowing when to let go and taking in the msg you are to receive.
Absolutely .. I think that it has a lot to do with the process of growing and changing. The people that I hang out with now except for 2-3 are not the same people that were in my life when I was a teenager because of my personal development.
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