As we know Bishop Weeks a (convicted woman abuser)is searching for a wife. I have friends that will date a person like this or someone they know is a chronic cheater, liar etc.
My question - Why do men/woman date someone they know has a questionable character?
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Maybe they date the same type of person because that is what they are comfortable with, or what they are used to. It can be related to those who only date 1 race or they find quality/characteristic attractive. Maybe for some it could be the 'challenge' that they will be the one that it doesn't happen to. Or, they could just be a gluton for punishment.
You are attracted to the type of energy you put out into the world.
To some it maybe a challenge but to others it may be what they are getting out of the relationship ie..sex,food, gifts or all of the above.
I think most people do it for the thrill, Woman think they can change the man and he is going to see she is not like all the other women. Men view it as the challenge of knocking off this crazy chick. I tend to call people like this devil worshipers because you know the pain, and problems associated with this person but you still choice to go after it. It's time we open our eyes and go after what feels good and makes us feel good..
I think that maybe at some point in time within that friendship/relationship that maybe you see something more in that person not that you want to change them but you have seen or know the person they can be.
understood you may have seen more, but once again your trying to change this person, how about allowing them to change based on what they see within themselves. Goldenstar
Some how people who date men/women like this seem to think that they are view differently by these characters. That they won't be treated like ALL the others before them. And yes they probably feel like they can some how be this inspiration for them to finally be all they can be. Because after all they have seen or know they could be better right. Ummmm NO!
Who ever this person is when you met them is what they are....period. There is no " I have seen or know they can be better". That is interpreted as Im hoping you change with my encouragement and guidance. What I call the "Save a Hoe Syndrome"
The "he could be such a good man if only he got his money right", " she would be a wifey material if she knew how to cook", blah blah blah.
At the end of the day what it really is....ppl hope that somewhere along the line this person will change. Of course no one will say it out loud but thats all it is....
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