When you visit someone your interested in at their house, do you need you need to set boundaries before yall meet? Such as are you spending the night? Will we be having sex, etc?
This girl invited my homeboy over for a movie and when he got there the lights were dim, so he automatically expected something to happen. After the movie she gave him the polite good bye. He felt she should have told him that before inviting him over.
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See, setting boundaries before visitation is to limiting. A good rule is go expecting nothing and prepared for anything. That way if it jumps off, you ready, if it doesn't, you aren't disappointed. Now if you set up boundaries and shit is going good, you already boxed yourself and gotta work to get out that box, or vice versa. You all said some ass is gonna be had, and she acting like she ain't got good sense and ready to bounce, now you gotta get out and save face.
Women are fickle. She could have changed her mind during the movie or her got a better offer (Cell phones can be a gift and a curse). Anything could have happen in an hours time. Just like Easy Rider said go in with no expectations and you don't lose. And always have a plan B.
Sometimes fellas .. a movie is just a movie. What movie theater has your boy been to when the lights are on as bright as the sun?? I don't believe in boundaries .. I like to let things flow. If you decide not to sleep with anyone in the first 3 months or kiss on the first date .. you should express that up front so that you don't find yourself in a compromising position .. I think if men and women spent more time trying to get to know each other, then you wouldn't have to play the guessing game so much .. things would work out better for the both of you.
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