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I don’t think it’s that important in a relationship I can’t see myself leaving somebody because they weren’t up on there head game, or the simple fact they didn’t like givin it.
For men I think it’s different I think that’s something that’s top priority on there list. I don’t think I man is going still around long if oral isn’t in the picture and if he stays around it will be a topic for discussion everyday until you change your mind
My dear goldenstar I have to agree with you, It will be a discussion EVERYDAY until you change your mind.
Head is important, because just as you want me to explore and taste all of you. I would like for you to do the same thing for me. Honestly sex gets boring after awhile and we should be able to replace vaginal sex with other things, Oral being one of the options.
Oral sex is important, it is important to know that it is an option in the relationship. There is a huge different between saying DON'T and I WON'T. Someone who WON'T is saying 'I don't care what you would like' someone saying DON'T is saying 'I have not, but I may'. On that same point, I am guilty of having put too much emphasis on getting and giving it, but hey...you live and you learn.
I'll never understand why so many women fear loving their mate in such an intimate manner. You have life literally in the palm of your hands (and mounth ;-)). I think that too many women are stuck on the fact that they are "sucking D*$k" and not sharing in one of the sweetest components to real intimacy. I love pleasuring my husband and when I get mine it is 10xs what i gave him. something to think about.
It is very important! Bottom line. Women should come to terms that you have to give oral love to the one you love. And men can't be scared of Ms. Kitty
I don't disagree with oral sex, however, some women don't mind giving it, as long as there is no pressure to do it. I personally don't mind getting nor receiving it. It does put excitement in the relationship. Which sex can get boring if your doing it the same way all the time. I'm a very sexually and passionate person and I enjoy good sex and I have a very high sex drive so I would like my mate to have the same.
I have been 2 types of relationships where the woman gave head freely and i to her as well. But i have also been with women who feel like they deserve a ring on the finger 1st....HA ! Oh and then theres the one woman that thought i would judge her in a negative light if she gave me head or some B.S. like that. Bottom line.........It is important.
I think it depends on the man and how much he thinks he needs to boast his man hood!! Society has made it mandatory to have oral sex. And what's the big deal anyways.
However, when it comes to sex yes it is important to maintain sex in a relationship. Once you start you gotta keep it going.
It's only important, on the receiving end (cuz I think that's what we're talkin' bout) once you've received it...cuz you don't know what you're missing til you've had it...right?
Once you have sex (of any type), most of us sinners don't wanna go back :)
Lol this will be a forever on going conversation. Bottom line is that if you are ok with it do it do it do it. I don't think that having sex just some how opens you up to do whateva... However, to ALL the men out there that may meet a chick like me who is not comfortable with that. Well it's all good. If u need that well.....ok just find the one who will do it for ya pimp!
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I don’t think it’s that important in a relationship I can’t see myself leaving somebody because they weren’t up on there head game, or the simple fact they didn’t like givin it.
For men I think it’s different I think that’s something that’s top priority on there list. I don’t think I man is going still around long if oral isn’t in the picture and if he stays around it will be a topic for discussion everyday until you change your mind
My dear goldenstar I have to agree with you, It will be a discussion EVERYDAY until you change your mind.
Head is important, because just as you want me to explore and taste all of you. I would like for you to do the same thing for me. Honestly sex gets boring after awhile and we should be able to replace vaginal sex with other things, Oral being one of the options.
Oral sex is important, it is important to know that it is an option in the relationship. There is a huge different between saying DON'T and I WON'T. Someone who WON'T is saying 'I don't care what you would like' someone saying DON'T is saying 'I have not, but I may'. On that same point, I am guilty of having put too much emphasis on getting and giving it, but hey...you live and you learn.
I'll never understand why so many women fear loving their mate in such an intimate manner. You have life literally in the palm of your hands (and mounth ;-)).
I think that too many women are stuck on the fact that they are "sucking D*$k" and not sharing in one of the sweetest components to real intimacy.
I love pleasuring my husband and when I get mine it is 10xs what i gave him. something to think about.
It is very important! Bottom line. Women should come to terms that you have to give oral love to the one you love. And men can't be scared of Ms. Kitty
I don't disagree with oral sex, however, some women don't mind giving it, as long as there is no pressure to do it. I personally don't mind getting nor receiving it. It does put excitement in the relationship. Which sex can get boring if your doing it the same way all the time. I'm a very sexually and passionate person and I enjoy good sex and I have a very high sex drive so I would like my mate to have the same.
It totally depends on who is giving it.
Bihen do you care to explain your statement ?
I have been 2 types of relationships where the woman gave head freely and i to her as well. But i have also been with women who feel like they deserve a ring on the finger 1st....HA ! Oh and then theres the one woman that thought i would judge her in a negative light if she gave me head or some B.S. like that. Bottom line.........It is important.
Well I have to disagree with goldenstar...
I think it depends on the man and how much he thinks he needs to boast his man hood!! Society has made it mandatory to have oral sex. And what's the big deal anyways.
However, when it comes to sex yes it is important to maintain sex in a relationship. Once you start you gotta keep it going.
It's only important, on the receiving end (cuz I think that's what we're talkin' bout) once you've received it...cuz you don't know what you're missing til you've had it...right?
Once you have sex (of any type), most of us sinners don't wanna go back :)
Society and the world has evolved. Head falls in line with the natural course of life.
Lol this will be a forever on going conversation. Bottom line is that if you are ok with it do it do it do it. I don't think that having sex just some how opens you up to do whateva...
However, to ALL the men out there that may meet a chick like me who is not comfortable with that. Well it's all good. If u need that well.....ok just find the one who will do it for ya pimp!
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