Friday, October 24, 2008

LOVE

Do you think its possible to be in love with 2 people at once?

Also, do you think you can love anybody like your first love?

11 comments:

Easy Rider said...

I don't see why it wouldn't be possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time. Love is an emotion, if you can hate an entire group of people, why can't you love 2 people? You can be in love with traits of those 2 people, you can yearn for those 2 people some how merge into 1 person.

Why would even want to love someone like my first love? At that point in your life, a lot of us were young, and blind to the facts, ignorant to the situation and just flat out stupid. Like youth, love is wasted on the young.

Roshanda Pearl said...

I guess you can say when you were young it was a careless love. Like the real important life shit didn't matter. Like where do I see my live with you in the next 10 years.

But you still have a lot of people who still love like there young. \

Still wouldn't say that its wasted tho.

Easy Rider said...

All I was saying is love with your heart AND your head

Anonymous said...

I would say that you can love two folks at the same time.

I dont think I can love again like the first one, she had me wide open.

StS said...

Wow Goldenstar .. you hit the nail on the head about people still loving like a child. I don't think you could be in love with 2 people at one time .. that is exhausting to say the least. I think you can love qualities about more than one person, but will end bad .. it always does. I think that love isn't just about what is in your heart, there has to be some logic involved .. that is when you know you are grown and no longer a child .. love by itself cannot satisfy all my needs. "What's love got to do with it?" that song didn't make sense when I was young, but now I think its the God honest truth.

Dakim said...

You can be in love with 2 people at the same time. Most cheaters do it all the time. In most cases you have 2 people the fill different needs in your life.

Nah you will not never love someone like your 1st love and depending on how that went, you may never want to love them that way. But good or bad that first love is one you hold onto and cherish or hate dearly.

NJGUDGRL said...

Your first love will either make or break all of the relationships to follow. Especially, if the person was HURT by their first love. Men don't recover as well as Women. Men carry that hurt w/them to all of their other relationships (my opinion).

Dakim said...

Your right men will carry it until they pass. So tell your woman folks to stop hurting men

StS said...

NJGUDGRL .. you are so right. From some of the posting I see on here by men, they really do carry that hurt forever. Women are more willing to give it another try because for the most part, love is still an option.

NJGUDGRL said...

Forgiveness is hard for men to do. We (women) forgive and move forward. Our hurts and pains are stored up in the back of our minds. For men it is still etched into their hearts and all of the women to follow will receive some of it as the new relationship develops.

ConRonda said...

I do think its very possible to love 2 peolpe at one time.
I do not think you will love like your first love. First loves you go in very naive. Just wide open! Then hurt happens and you become proctective. I think you can love hard and deep but just not like the first time. We can't allow the same hurt to happen a second time around!