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Can someone explain why we dont like to be alone. I have been without a mate in my life for around a year now and im lonely why is it that? Why cant we just learn to be our own company......
Until you learn to make yourself laugh, you find it lonely sometimes. Also if you are used to having people around you, when no one is around it may seem extra empty, there is nothing wrong with being lonely and there is nothing wrong with talking to yourself. All jokes aside, you can be your own best friend, who knows you better than you. Take yourself on a date, take yourself on a day trip. It may sound crazy, but when I get lonely I will turn down the sound on Tv and become the color commentator on whatever sports is on and crack myself up. Shit, call up a friend and TELL them you are coming by, someone is sitting at home 'cleaning their fake gun' (you had to see Tropic Thunder to get it).
People were not meant to be alone. When we are used to having a companion around and all of a sudden that changes, due to whatever circumstances, it takes a while to adjust.
I find that people that jump from one relationship, too quickly, without evaluating their situations, seem not okay with being their own company. That's another issue...where you feel like you just have to be with someone, without trying to figure out why your relationships are failing, etc.
I was yanked from the comfort of my companion, so the feelings of lonliness are natural and it's not easy most days.
Thank goodness for my peops tho...you know who you are...c ya at "Huli's"!
I feel you though, I am not the type of person that needs to be up in someones face 24/7. I actually need my downtime, turn off my phone and will not talk to anyone. I prefer watching the games by myself especially if one of my squads are playing.
You can be very alone and be in a relationship. If you can't enjoy your own company what makes you think you are going to add significant value to someone elses life.
I like being alone actually .. I don't like to talk in the morning unless you trying to get me right for the day or when I first get home. My job requires me to talk all day and deal with a lot of different personalities so when I am home .. its me time. I would much rather communicate with my friends via text or email because it gives my vocal cords a rest. I am such a homebody .. so I don't necessarily need to be right next to someone but knowing someone is there feels good. I like having someone to cook for and having someone to lay down with ..
I think feeling lonely is quite natural. But at some point you have to be able to entertain yourself so that you can occupy your time and not feel so alone.
We are strong and intelligent being who can do anything we choose todo. Loneliness is a state of mind, Depends on what we are looking for and whether or not we are able to satisfy that want. There are plenty of people that are married, or in relationships that are lonely. The important thing is determine why your unable to satisfy yourself. During this time it should be about growing and becoming the best you. Because if your not at your best then your only going to settle for less when if comes knocking at your door.
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Until you learn to make yourself laugh, you find it lonely sometimes. Also if you are used to having people around you, when no one is around it may seem extra empty, there is nothing wrong with being lonely and there is nothing wrong with talking to yourself. All jokes aside, you can be your own best friend, who knows you better than you. Take yourself on a date, take yourself on a day trip. It may sound crazy, but when I get lonely I will turn down the sound on Tv and become the color commentator on whatever sports is on and crack myself up. Shit, call up a friend and TELL them you are coming by, someone is sitting at home 'cleaning their fake gun' (you had to see Tropic Thunder to get it).
People were not meant to be alone. When we are used to having a companion around and all of a sudden that changes, due to whatever circumstances, it takes a while to adjust.
I find that people that jump from one relationship, too quickly, without evaluating their situations, seem not okay with being their own company. That's another issue...where you feel like you just have to be with someone, without trying to figure out why your relationships are failing, etc.
I was yanked from the comfort of my companion, so the feelings of lonliness are natural and it's not easy most days.
Thank goodness for my peops tho...you know who you are...c ya at "Huli's"!
Is "cleaning the fake gun" masturbating?
I gotta see Tropic Thunder now...lol
LOL easy rider you sound a little off homie. j/k
I feel you though, I am not the type of person that needs to be up in someones face 24/7. I actually need my downtime, turn off my phone and will not talk to anyone. I prefer watching the games by myself especially if one of my squads are playing.
You can be very alone and be in a relationship. If you can't enjoy your own company what makes you think you are going to add significant value to someone elses life.
If you are lonely get a dog.
'Cleaning the fake gun' is just analogy to be being bored/nervous. He says 'Like a boy playing with his dick' when asked about cleaning a fake gun.
I like being alone actually .. I don't like to talk in the morning unless you trying to get me right for the day or when I first get home. My job requires me to talk all day and deal with a lot of different personalities so when I am home .. its me time. I would much rather communicate with my friends via text or email because it gives my vocal cords a rest. I am such a homebody .. so I don't necessarily need to be right next to someone but knowing someone is there feels good. I like having someone to cook for and having someone to lay down with ..
I think feeling lonely is quite natural. But at some point you have to be able to entertain yourself so that you can occupy your time and not feel so alone.
We are strong and intelligent being who can do anything we choose todo. Loneliness is a state of mind, Depends on what we are looking for and whether or not we are able to satisfy that want. There are plenty of people that are married, or in relationships that are lonely. The important thing is determine why your unable to satisfy yourself. During this time it should be about growing and becoming the best you. Because if your not at your best then your only going to settle for less when if comes knocking at your door.
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