Friday, October 17, 2008

Interacial Dating

I remember back in the days it was a prize for a black man to date a white woman. The same was true for a white man dating a black woman. I thought in 2008, people's feelings have changed and it's about who makes you happy. But I find in the south it still bothers alot of people.

What are your thoughts ?
Would you date outside of your race? Why or why not

9 comments:

StS said...

Without the mixing of the races .. I wouldn't be here. I don't think that it should matter .. The only thing I have a problem is when I see a mixed child whose hair is a hot mess cuz the mama don't know how to tame that kitchen.

It is still a problem in the south for the older people but I don't see it being a problem in the younger generations thanks to Flavor Flav and Ice T

Dakim said...

STS - ICE T is the man for that one.. but we all don't get lucky to find one like that. But I don't have a problem with it, actually considering how funny my sisters act, something different doesn't hurt at all. And for my sisters its not because I can do what I want it about not coming with bagagge and the attitude.

Alot of people in the south appear to be stuck with years of hatred from their grand parents, I didn't grow up that way so I don't criticize but thats why I think they still can't get over it.

StS said...

Dakim .. the hardest thing in life is to learn to live in forgiveness. When you can forgive, you regain your power. We have to stop making excuses for the past and to elevate our future.

Miss T said...

Love has no color and whomever you find it in...great.

For me, I'm a Black woman and I love Black men, features and all. Now I have seen some attractive White men but they haven't approached me and a relationship outside of my race is so foreign. I honestly don't know if I could because it hasn't been in my experience.

If I were to meet "Mr. White/Yellow/Green" today, my concern would not be can he love me but can he appreciate me and the things that I have to go through as a Black woman. The Black man is the only man that I know of that can relate best to me(although even some of ya'll, Black men, need to appreciate us more).

Unknown said...

No offense to no one but there is nothing appealing to me in another race. Sure love has no color...I love other races but not romantically. And yes, I wouldn't be here if mixing of the races hadn't happen. But I cannot imagine myself with any man out side of my race. Thats not to say you won't get along and be in blissful love. But I just think you have to account for other things like not being able to relate, religion, just general beliefs. Not to mention sex....it is really not appealing in that category.

Miss T said...

Conronda

I see where you're coming from as far as certain beliefs between Blacks, etc...but sex...I dunno. I never even seen White or Latino pee pee or know how they work it. It might be good...LOL

I can't imagine it looking prettier than what I've seen live and in color...but maybe someone on here can clear that up.

ConRonda said...

Miss T
thats funny. I just dunno about that. I like this...If you like it I love. I wont hate on anyone who is enjoying it. But girl I think I will pass. If its good well hell you can't miss what you never had

Dakim said...

yall are limiting yourself to color.. what about what they can do for you.

ConRonda said...

i think you just curious dakim.....