We all heard about the woman that drove her son to Nebraska and left him at the hospital because the law allows it without her getting in trouble. According to the AJC she states she tried all she could and wasn't getting any help. Says the boy started stealing etc. He was bad and fearless. She felt that was the last thing to do, so he wouldn't end up in jail and she wouldn't get in trouble for something he did.
What are your thoughts?
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I am glad she left his little bad azz. If you can't listen and don't want to play by the rules. Then let his little butt be an adult somewhere else. Interesting, he father is not in the picture so there is no help and as a parent I know how you can get to that breaking point. So I say kudos to the mother for showing this kid she isn't playing. It's not about not loving him but about your not going to ruin my life because you choose to be bad.
It is my understanding that she did try and have his father calm his little ass down over the course of a summer, but he couldn't do it, she tried to have her grandmother do it, no dice. Also someone was telling me that her own mother did her the same way she was young and feels that that experience saved her life and made her a better person so she got to wits end and is doing the same for her son. Did you hear that they stopped about half way to NE and had a party with other family members? Yeah, thats a going away party for yo ass.
The problems she is facing now that boy are a product of ignoring stuff early on. It really ties back to yesterday's thread about people not being parents to their kids and kids not being held responsible for their own actions.
Yeah I can understand that he is a bad azz, but you still not suppose to give up on your kids. We as parents forgot that one you have kids, you are not free anymore. Your life is devoted to your kids. You should train them up the way he should go and they will never depart from it. The key is training them the right way. He may stray but eventualy he will come back and besides, you never know what the child may become. It get frustrating some time. I know. I'm a single mother. I try to instill the right thing to my son, but I promised my self that I will never give up on him. Obviously something got broken with the child and the mother needs to figure out what happen. You know Black people are afraid of theropy. They need to go and lay on the the long black cough.
This is a mess .. I read the article on some news station. Now she is going to court. Is she being charged because she went outside her state? I think that she was really trying to help her son but just like she researched taking him to the hospital, she should've researched the laws state to state because she has made her situation worse.
I forgot .. What she really needed to do is get some Holy oil !! I just wanted Emily Rose ..
STS u funny. If they are taking her to court that is the problem. She did what she felt was needed at the time but at the end of the day there is no help and no accountability for the kids as least non that I am hearing.. My theory leave his little ass out there til the new year and teach him a lesson..
Dakim .. you can't leave him in Nebraska .. lol .. a buffalo might get his lil butt. DCF is involved and the mother has to go to court now.
She didn't abandon the boy in a wheat field in NE, she dropped his ass off at a hospital. From there he will surely go into 'the system' and who knows what will become of him after that. The thing that makes her story so news worthy is she drove from GA, there was a guy a couple weeks back who drove from KS and dropped off not 1, not 2, not 4 but 9 fucking kids, and he got all of 2 days of news coverage.
From what I've heard, she tried all she could. I don't know what you're supposed to do when, maybe just ultimately, you have a demonseed/unruly child.
My grandmother told me she called the cops on my mother and had her picked up, while she was in class, in high school...I think for being disobedient. But my grandmother was like..."If you don't live by my rules, I'mma have you locked up".
The problem is kids are taught that parents can go to jail, if the parent uses corporal punishment. I laid down the law EARLY with my daughter and tapped her butt a few times.
My daughter knows, to this day, I WILL LAY HER OUT (now she the same size as me too...SHHHEEEUUUT). Last time I tapped her azz was in middle school...bout 3 years ago.
Teacher just so happen to call me, on my day off from work. I was like, I'll be there in 15 mins. I drug her butt out the school, by her collar, handled my biz, in front of the school, and drug her back into the discipline office, passing a Black police officer in the school. I had that "don't even test me" look on my face. I'm trying to handle biz so the authorties won't have to in the future.
I talk my head off about doing the right thing, etc. As a teen, she messes up a lil and all I've had to do was talk. Overall, thank God, she's a good kid and she doesn't mess up too bad...probably because she has seen the Sybil in me and knows it's liable to come out, if necessary
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