HAPPY WEDNESDAY !!!!
I am shocked to have met and become friends with the last American Oral Virgin. Yes my friend says she has NEVER EVER EVER given HEAD, sang into the microphone. I am still trying to figure out how she kept a BF. LOL ! She feels that is something to possible save for marriage.
My question Are you waiting for marriage to engage in specific sexual activity?
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I think that its important to save some sexual acts for your husband to be. I feel that there are somethings that you may only want to share/try with that one person.
But thats truly up to the indiviual, I think it would... up a mans ego to learn that you have only tried/done something with him and him only, I mean.... men say they want the freak but really thats isnt the case.
I dont think I man wants to wifey a woman that has just been out there doing lawd knows what cause its some freaky stuff out there yall.... ;)
I think we should try everything b4 we get married. We can practice for perfection after marriage. Like you test drive a car, I need to test it all.
Ironically, I do want my lady to make me feel like I am the only one she is doing certain things with. Yes on this occassion ONLY it is ok to lie to me. Help my ego
because I don't want super head when we experiment the first time.
Considering most marriages end in divorce anyway. Why wait, what is the point of waiting ?
I think that people have become to loose and losing some self respect. Yes I said self respect! Its almost like sexuality and the acts are sooo mundan. Leaving men and women feeling like its nothing to go beyond for someone who you have absolutely no real committment to. I think that if you are with someone that is really diggin you none of the things "WE" have made seem so very important will be important. That person is going to value you and repsect your choices. If they cant well keep it movin pimp!
I find it funny that women juggle what they should do in a simple relationship just to keep that man happy. And I think its sad that a man would truly EXPECT that woman to juggle and contemplate something she may not be comfortable with just to keep him around.
Somethings no matter what it is is left for marriage. Not just any blow joe!
We spoken ms ConRonda, however I think self respect is a bit far. It is more about choices.
Hey what can I say...I really think it a respect thing,lol
If someone feels the need to save something for marriage, more power to them, but I am not in favor on putting restrictions or limits on any relationship. As far as I am concerned waiting to get married is the only thing worth waiting for marriage to do. I don't think being sexually adventurious means you sacrifice your self respect and wanting to make your partner happy. My only question would be are they with holding for the sole reason of waiting to get married or are they really not comfortable doing something or do not think they will enjoy it?
The problem as I see it, is that most men can't decide who they want to marry..their mom or their freak in the bed.
Some how both men and women have convinced themself that a wife can't be both.
What are you saving for marriage? head?anal?menage? But you will still have "sex" with a man before the ring? That makes no sense to me as woman. If you are going to save it, why not all of it? oh...you want your cake and eat it too; but he can't. I get it :-)
I think having oral sex is a choice not a right. And I do not believe that in order to keep a BF you must have oral sex with them.
Dakim yes you test drive a car before buying it, but is your partner just a object to buy like a car?
ooo dakim say something.... I cant wait to here
I wouldn't say my partner is like an object but one thing men value theirs cars, so you know how I would value my woman. With that said, I test drive a new car to make sure without a doubt it is something I will be comfortable with for years to CUM !
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ok Dakim!!!
Im mad cuz you know some men, prob. u 2, dont treasure their cars. They let them get all dusty and nasty on the inside. Then sometime they stink. Soooo I would hope to never be compared to a dag on car.
Conronda dont be mad mommy ! Yes my car is a lil dirty today, so I guess today I am dealing with a ghetto girl..LOL
Seriously i'm not comparing you to a car. But men do value your car and most men value their women and most men value your penis. And the Joy of having a beautiful woman take care of your prize possesion is the greatest. You may not understand but think about the feeling you get when....
Aint nothing wrong with saving certain things for hubby. I know that would make me feel special if my wife have never done something with another person. That way I can break her in my way ! Of course if you have done everything and are still holding out certain things (head) for future hubby then thats wrong. You know who you are.
Dakim....yeah u have to take special care of me honey...Im like rolls royce sweetie. LOL
Conronda, you are like an Old British hand job? Interesting...
None of my boyfriends told me that they had to have it...and I wasn't giving it. Our relationship never broke up behind that though and I was always respected for not just "doing" every man just cuz he would've that done.
I do have male friends that won't date women if they don't do it though. Years ago, my mindset was that I did want to save that for my husband, more so because I was intimidated by the fact that since I was "so old" and hadn't done it...might as well wait.
I'm no longer intimidated by that fact...cuz every man I know would love to be test dummy (ain't sayin i have/haven't done it).
IN CONCLUSION: I think that you should do what makes you feel comfortable when having sex, whatever type it might be. At my age, I don't think you should just hold out on any one type of sex, if you having sex before marriage anyway.
ConRonda I would love to take care of you. But remember even a rolls royce needs to be spit shined occasionally.. lmao
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LMAO....
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