Why does Love hurt!
Love is an affectioniate feeling you have for another person and the way you choose to display that affection. I remember love was synonymous with birds and the bees, riding down the country side, holding hands, kissing until your mouth hurt, brushing her hair, rubbing his feet.
Now depending on who you ask Love has evolved into a niche product where only a few people can offer encouraging words about it. Others relate it to pain they felt or are feeling and how a heartless person destroyed that. It has become synonymous with the toy in the window you can’t have, fear of getting that first needle, divorce, looking out the window on a rainy day.
Love doesn’t hurt, people hurt people. We choose to give our heart to undeserving people and when they don’t reciprocate those feelings, that's what hurts. Pain is inevitable but misery is a choice. We have the power to choose how much pain we are willing to endure. We wait hoping this person will see the good in me and change. Spend countless days going above and beyond to prove we are the best candidate. When in reality we are really subscribing to an expired service that isn’t taking any new customers. In our search we allow misery to become a habit that shapes our outlook on love. Continuing to love the same type of behaviors and expecting a different result. I have learned people love differently, but is your love something that brings the best or worst out our me, one that has me dreamy or on edge.
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Hmmm... Let me start this off by saying that I think I'm the last true romantic in this city we call ATL... But people just use the word as if they dont understand the meaning....
Love does hurt its a part of your emotions its life, I dont think that people hurt you its something that the person has done to hurt your feeling its not like there causing some time of blood dripping pain.
I will post some more later I have to get back to training.... I'm not done
Hell yeah love hurts....why, because its emotion.
To go through all the little bits and pieces of why love is or not differs for everyone.
But one thing is for sure when you speak those words you need to know what it means. Its not just a moment of blissfulness. To say you love someone is deep! So don't speak it unless you mean it.
But what happens if you tell someone you love them and they say they don't love you. Do you continue with them or leave?
wow...now thats really a good question, I think it depends, if you confess your love and the person is like I dont have any feeling for you, then I think you should move on( I mean really ) , but if the person tells you that they care for you blah blah maybe they just havent reach the point of love the same time as you.
But I believe in love and life is about love and pain so just deal ya know...
Great question I think should be posted for all to see and comment. I am posting that question on its on blog.
Of course love hurts. it's not love if it doesn't. Every relationship has to go through something and you must know if you can stand the test of time. That's what makes you and your relationship stronger. You should also know the diffence in being in love and just being stupid. Also let me clarify I'm referring to EMOTIONAL pain. NOT PHYSICAL pain.
Anonymous - interesting comment, I don't think love has to hurt and when it does, I feel helps create character within that person. But emotional pain shouldn't be the reason we grow and a test of our love for each other. Call me naive but I believe when you have two people who truly want to be together they make a continuous effort to be together and make things work, while minimizing the pain they intentally inflict on the other person
Dakim that sound wells and i can kinda agree with you but that's how it should be. but in reality we are not in a perfect world and although most hurt that accures within a TRUE love relationship is never intentional.
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