If someone came to you and pointed out things in your character that are not becoming, would you be offended or would you take it for face value and do a self check.
Can you handle criticism or will you fly off the handle?
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It really is going to depend on the who is mentioning what and how they go about it. If they are talking about a flaw that I already know about and we have discussed previous then there is an increased chance the conversation is not going to end well. You ain't saying nothing slick to a can of oil. However, if it is coming from someone who's oppinion I value and they are pointing out something I have not noticed, then yeah, I am gonna listen patiently and take their critism to heart and see if that is something I can change in myself.
It depends on who the person is giving out the criticism.... But I think at first I would GO OFF and then tell them about there life, and when it was all said and done, I would go back to the house and really take a look at myself and try to correct any flaws I felt hit home with me when the person spoke it..
But you cant make everybody happy you can only be who you are....
Probably not at first. Most people know their own flaws but fail to openly accept them. I think I fall into that category.
Definately depends on the person. For example, the control freak women I have dealt with in the past, the first this they say when they are mad is you short with grey hair and a stomach, And I already know this. I been short since high school.. LOL..
I actually try to do a self evaluation often, so I know where I know when and where change is needed. So, I can choose how much it affects who I am. Then when someone gives their criticism, I can go the F#$% off. because I already know this !
I take things into consideration when someone close to me makes a comment. Sometimes you really don't know that you may come off like a bitch or come off to opinionated. So i think that i would be upset and try to defend myself at that moment but later on i would reflect.
I could take critcism depending on who it came from and how much I value their opinion.
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