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I think I would want someone that was in love with me beause if that person truly loves me then I think commitment would come along has a package deal....
I can't really see putting one above the other. Love is simply and emotion like hate and fear, and commitment is subjective. Without one, the other is only skin deep. Give me someone that is committed to loving me or loves being committed to me and I will give them the last drop of blood in my body.
WOW LAST DROP OF BLOOD ! I will lend her some blood til the end of the week.
I prefer someone the truly loves me. I feel most ppl cheat which causes me to consider most ppl commitment. At least if you love me I can probably deal with finding out u have cheated on me !
I would say that to me the work hand and hand. How can you honestly be committed to someone without love. If I dont love you Im not going to committ. So I would want the same in return. However, I do not think that being committed or inlove prevents cheating. Like Dakim atleast if I love you I can probably deal a little better
So what I think I am seeing is some of us are saying that so long as the person loves you that you can handle them cheating on you. Or are you saying that because YOU love them, you are able to cope a little better with their cheating?
conronda I think when you love someone we become straight fools.
If you have someone that loves you back it works wonderful, but when u have the idiot that doesn't sometimes it takes a minute to see through all the smoke and mirrors..
Dakim you are absolutely correct. We do put on the love shades. People just need to remember that when you start dealin in love and you start foolin around...u might just bring out another side that you aren't ready 4
However you can never trully trust a person, I was referring to my love, because I only know when you show me and for all of us that have been in a relationship, we have learned you never trully know a person. What I do is learn their habits because if you know a person habits then you know that person. Which at that point I have the choice of what and how much I am willing to deal with.
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I think I would want someone that was in love with me beause if that person truly loves me then I think commitment would come along has a package deal....
I can't really see putting one above the other. Love is simply and emotion like hate and fear, and commitment is subjective. Without one, the other is only skin deep. Give me someone that is committed to loving me or loves being committed to me and I will give them the last drop of blood in my body.
WOW LAST DROP OF BLOOD ! I will lend her some blood til the end of the week.
I prefer someone the truly loves me. I feel most ppl cheat which causes me to consider most ppl commitment. At least if you love me I can probably deal with finding out u have cheated on me !
I would say that to me the work hand and hand. How can you honestly be committed to someone without love. If I dont love you Im not going to committ. So I would want the same in return. However, I do not think that being committed or inlove prevents cheating. Like Dakim atleast if I love you I can probably deal a little better
So what I think I am seeing is some of us are saying that so long as the person loves you that you can handle them cheating on you. Or are you saying that because YOU love them, you are able to cope a little better with their cheating?
I think I could cope better if I loved them.
because I love you I will not have too many dreams about choking you in your sleep and feeding you to reptiles.
I remember Love you to come and go, but now commitment is paper thin
conronda I think when you love someone we become straight fools.
If you have someone that loves you back it works wonderful, but when u have the idiot that doesn't sometimes it takes a minute to see through all the smoke and mirrors..
Dakim you are absolutely correct. We do put on the love shades. People just need to remember that when you start dealin in love and you start foolin around...u might just bring out another side that you aren't ready 4
Dakim - if you have the idea that all people cheat then how will you know whether or not its really commitment or love.
Whats most important in any relationship is trust! Once you establish trust then you can move to love and then commitment.
good question, and yes trust is important.
However you can never trully trust a person, I was referring to my love, because I only know when you show me and for all of us that have been in a relationship, we have learned you never trully know a person. What I do is learn their habits because if you know a person habits then you know that person. Which at that point I have the choice of what and how much I am willing to deal with.
AMEN Dakim...well said
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