Monday, October 6, 2008

Caring or Love

What is the difference between caring about someone and love?
Do you believe in Love?

10 comments:

ConRonda said...

To me when you love someone the things you do differ. You will try a little harder, go a little further, just make more of an effort over all.

Dakim said...

I think alot of people confuse caring about someone with Love. I guess I would says when you do unconditional things that is love. Caring is I like you enough to feed you but not bring you home.. LOL.

Anonymous said...

I think Caring for someone is liking that person enough not to hurt their feelings.

I think when your in love with someone you try to do everything in your power to protect their feelings. Love is sensory feeling that is hard to describe when you just click with a person.

I think most men love hard once maybe twice in their life.

Roshanda Pearl said...

AD men can only love once.... What about womem?

ConRonda said...

I think they love twice

Roshanda Pearl said...

Why are we putting a number on the amount of times that you can love someone.

Anonymous said...

LOL don't attack the messenger I am just keeping it real!

I can't speak for a woman because I am not one. = )

Dakim said...

I think women love over and over and over again.

Men once, depending how that experience went, he will love one more time. But it will be a long time and take a strong woman

ConRonda said...

The question started as what is the difference between the 2. Love is what it takes to overcome all obstacles. Love is deep and forgiving. Love is blame and forgiveness. Love is what we all want. It is the balance of lust, appreciation, desire, commitment.

To care is ok....but caring wont be lasting. Love is unforgettable.

As far as men and women with how many times we love. Women love over and over and over agian. Just looking to be loved back. Men love one time get hurt and dont trust it again. For them to go to that vulnerable part is hard for them. They remember all to well what the pain feels like...and is it worth it. Sometimes yes and sometime no. A woman who finds a man that has been truly hurt by love is like finding a diamond in the ruff. You got to be willing to go into a dark cave and chip at the pieces of the rock until you see the shining light. Then when you get it you have to handle with care. If you drop it it will shatter and break. To put the pieces back again is almost impossible.

Dakim said...

WOW ! conronda, that was very well said, I think that touched a sensitive part of me !