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This is a major difference between the Presidential candidates. Colin Powell endorsed Barack partial based on his views of abortions. Do you believe in the right to choose? What are your thoughts?
I believe in the right to choose ! However, I think if your not in a stable environment or position then your should abort. Save yourself and the unborn child a life of struggle.
Yes, I beleive in having the option of an abortion or not, but that doesn't mean that people should be using abortion as a form their sole form of birth control. shit happens and condoms break, leak, slide off and accidents occur. Someone should not be forced to deal with a situation they have an opportunity to change. In the words of Johnny Cochran - If you can not support, maybe you should abort.
i believe that there should be a choice but i think its a choice that should be very carefully made. i know people who have had multiple abortions and i definately don't agree with that. it should not be a form of birth control. in cases of rape sure, but if you get drunk or just lazy, you made your decision now own up to it, its time to grow up. that goes for guys and girls, if your responsible enough for sex then you'd better be responsible enough to take responsibility for what happens.
Seems to me, and mistake is anything you didn't mean to do. so yeah, sometimes a pregnancy is a mistake. You may have made a conscious decision to have sex, but you didn't make the decision to get pregnant. You took precautions to prevent it, used contraceptives, and still got pregnant. It was a mistake.
Sex produces kids i mean really. Thats the purpose of it. So to me in a way when you are having sex its not like you AREN'T trying to prevent pregnancy. So u need to handle it when it occurs. But I do understand that people feel abortions are the best for them at that time. Which is their choice.
So you are saying that the only reason someone should have sex is to make a baby, since that is the purpose for it; regardless to the measures they take to prevent conception?
Easy rider Of course thats not what I'm saying. I'm saying the act of having sex produces children. Thats its main purpose. Yeah we have a lot of fun doing it (wink wink). Its an amazing thing it is, lol. But we know going in what can happen. So if a baby is made you need to be grown enough to deal. Thats all.
You also need to be grown enough to make the tough decision which in some cases is to terminate the pregnancy for the sake of all parties involved. An abortion can be as life changing as having a child.
So that 'being grown' argument is out the window because you have to be grown enough to accept what lies down the road after making a mistake and getting pregnant and making the tough choice of having an abortion.
Easy Rider Well thats your opinion. I just feel regardless if you make a baby you need to take care of it. Not just choosing to say "oops not a good time". Thats my opinion.
Yes making the decision to terminate is hard. It can be something to overcome also.
I have a question for all. At what point do you discuss these options. Before you have sex or after you find out a baby has been created?
The discussion would only come about if there was a situation where she wanted to terminate the pregnancy. I would not be pushing for termination but at the same time, I am going to support what ever she wants to do. If she want to terminate I will give reasons why not, let her know that I am not in favor of it, but be supportive of her decision.
Like I said way up at the top of the thread, I am not in favor of abortion as someone's sole form of birth control, but I am in favor of having the option available to you.
I believe in mistakes I don't believe in mistakes when it comes to sex. Because that is an active choice we are making.. unless it is a crime.. If I don't have a condom and I still hit then that is my fault if I catch something or chick gets pregnant, I can't say oh it was a mistake..
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Yes I believe in the right to choose!
But I don't think you should abort
I believe in the right to choose ! However, I think if your not in a stable environment or position then your should abort. Save yourself and the unborn child a life of struggle.
I just feel like if you are grown enough to do the act of making a baby you need to be grown enough to take care of the consiquence
I think that everybody makes mistake and if you have a choice to correct your error then why not.....
So yes I do believe in the right to choose
I don't believe in mistakes, If it is out of rape or incest or something similar then defin have an abortion.
With all the information available on teen pregnancy, anyone that gets pregnant now has made a choice to get pregnant.
Yes, I beleive in having the option of an abortion or not, but that doesn't mean that people should be using abortion as a form their sole form of birth control. shit happens and condoms break, leak, slide off and accidents occur. Someone should not be forced to deal with a situation they have an opportunity to change. In the words of Johnny Cochran - If you can not support, maybe you should abort.
Dito...it is definitely not a mistake.
how can you say you dont believe in mistakes? Dakim you havent made any in life, how is this any different?
pregnancy is not a mistake.. you cant compare that to making life decisions. You know that the act of sex produces a child.
i believe that there should be a choice but i think its a choice that should be very carefully made. i know people who have had multiple abortions and i definately don't agree with that. it should not be a form of birth control. in cases of rape sure, but if you get drunk or just lazy, you made your decision now own up to it, its time to grow up. that goes for guys and girls, if your responsible enough for sex then you'd better be responsible enough to take responsibility for what happens.
Seems to me, and mistake is anything you didn't mean to do. so yeah, sometimes a pregnancy is a mistake. You may have made a conscious decision to have sex, but you didn't make the decision to get pregnant. You took precautions to prevent it, used contraceptives, and still got pregnant. It was a mistake.
sex is a life decision. Because you know can come out of it. Children, AIDS.. etc
Sex produces kids i mean really. Thats the purpose of it. So to me in a way when you are having sex its not like you AREN'T trying to prevent pregnancy. So u need to handle it when it occurs. But I do understand that people feel abortions are the best for them at that time. Which is their choice.
So you are saying that the only reason someone should have sex is to make a baby, since that is the purpose for it; regardless to the measures they take to prevent conception?
I am pro-life, only in cases of rape or if the mothers life is at risk.
Easy rider
Of course thats not what I'm saying. I'm saying the act of having sex produces children. Thats its main purpose. Yeah we have a lot of fun doing it (wink wink). Its an amazing thing it is, lol. But we know going in what can happen. So if a baby is made you need to be grown enough to deal. Thats all.
You also need to be grown enough to make the tough decision which in some cases is to terminate the pregnancy for the sake of all parties involved. An abortion can be as life changing as having a child.
Yes it can.
So that 'being grown' argument is out the window because you have to be grown enough to accept what lies down the road after making a mistake and getting pregnant and making the tough choice of having an abortion.
Easy Rider
Well thats your opinion. I just feel regardless if you make a baby you need to take care of it. Not just choosing to say "oops not a good time". Thats my opinion.
Yes making the decision to terminate is hard. It can be something to overcome also.
I have a question for all. At what point do you discuss these options. Before you have sex or after you find out a baby has been created?
The discussion would only come about if there was a situation where she wanted to terminate the pregnancy. I would not be pushing for termination but at the same time, I am going to support what ever she wants to do. If she want to terminate I will give reasons why not, let her know that I am not in favor of it, but be supportive of her decision.
Like I said way up at the top of the thread, I am not in favor of abortion as someone's sole form of birth control, but I am in favor of having the option available to you.
I believe in mistakes I don't believe in mistakes when it comes to sex. Because that is an active choice we are making.. unless it is a crime.. If I don't have a condom and I still hit then that is my fault if I catch something or chick gets pregnant, I can't say oh it was a mistake..
I believe it is a personal choice that should not be debated. I am over this issue already...I think that there are more important issues.
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