Happy Holloween !

I don't have a thing to talk about today. Except Happy Hollween and don't let the boogie man get you. Can someone get a convo started.

Chemistry

My friend told me she met this guy and after a week they have great chemistry. Personally I think it takes longer than a week to develop and know real chemistry. I believe it is just infatuation or lust right now.

What is your definition chemistry? How long do you think it takes know if you and this person has real chemistry?

Recession

I don't spend much time meeting new people because of gas and the economy. It cost too much to go out on dates and in my opinion most women don't understand that. They still expect to be wined and dined.

How is the recession affecting you and your daily activites?

Good Part of Love !

We always talk about love hurts and depending on the day you try to steer people away from that thing called love.

Let's give some good examples of what love is and can be ?

What are your intentions

When you visit someone your interested in at their house, do you need you need to set boundaries before yall meet? Such as are you spending the night? Will we be having sex, etc?

This girl invited my homeboy over for a movie and when he got there the lights were dim, so he automatically expected something to happen. After the movie she gave him the polite good bye. He felt she should have told him that before inviting him over.

Hook a sister up !

Why don't men introduce their female friends to other men they know?

What is accetable in a relationship

continuing from yesterday!
In a relationship or marriage what is acceptable as far as going with each other and friends? Acceptable time to be home? How ofter should we go out as a couple? How often should we hang out with our friends?

Give me your opinion !

My friend met a very rich person,they have been talking back and forth and now he wants her to come visit, all of her friends are telling her to go, and live it up and spend his money. But I feel that she will have to do more than that, she will have to give up some ass. The theory is that she would give it up to somebody else that didnt have money so why not get something out of the deal.
Note: She is not interested in him like that

Do you feel like she is being treated like a prostitute or treating herself like one if she goes?

DL Hughley a sell out !

By now we have all read blogs or even seen the clips on youtube of DL Hughley. In my opinion they picked him because they knew he doesn't have a problem selling his people out for a samichwich (I know what I spealled). It is sad in the day and age when we are fighting to progress, that one NIGGA brings up back a million years. It shows what people will do for money.

What are your thoughts ?

I LEFT MY SON

We all heard about the woman that drove her son to Nebraska and left him at the hospital because the law allows it without her getting in trouble. According to the AJC she states she tried all she could and wasn't getting any help. Says the boy started stealing etc. He was bad and fearless. She felt that was the last thing to do, so he wouldn't end up in jail and she wouldn't get in trouble for something he did.

What are your thoughts?

What should I do ?

My good friend's son and her fiance got into beef and the son moved (probably got kicked out) of the house. Now he is going from house to house with friends. He called me last night and asked could he stay in my extra room. I am trying to decide what to do, because if I kicked my child out I wouldn't any of my friends helping them because I would want them to learn a lesson and to grow up.

What are your thoughts?

Married vs Single Friends

My homeboy got married last year now his wife has a problem with him hanging with his single friends. I can't understand why. A marriage is suppose to about trust and if you don't have that then you don't have anything.

Should married people limit or not hang with their single friends ? Why

Marriage vs Relationship

Can you explain what's the difference between being married and being in a long term relationship? (outside of the document we get from the courts)

What is the point of getting married?

Success

I met a black 27yr old woman that is a lawyer, She says she is trying to climb the corporate ladder as a result she has to lie about her background because he colleagues and boss wouldn't understand. In addition she feels the only thing a man can do for her is take from her not add. So, she stated she plans on interracial dating because they are the only ones that would understand her plight, financially and business wise.
What are your thoughts? Do you feel in today's economy you have to lie about who you are just to get ahead? Would you date interracial to get ahead in life?

Paying for Sports

I read in the AJC that parents are required to pay dues for their kids to play sports. WTF ! It says the fees covers SALARIES, equipment, etc. Where the heck are my tax dollars going. Oh yeah, tax dollars can not be used to pay for schools sports.

What are your thoughts ?

Celebrities

I just need to vent, I have read several times about parents being arrested because their kids have missed many days in school. It's ironic the same govt has devalued parents role and the type of discipline you can use on your kids, but want to blame parents. If a parent turns their kids over to the state they are looked down upon. I know once a child reaches a certain age they can become unbearable. My theory if the kids is over 12 they should lock the kids up not the parents. Society doesn't help raise kids and force celebrities as role models but blame parents in the end.

What are your thoughts?

Friends for a Season

Do you believe some friends can only be in your life for a season? share a story if you have one.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NJGUDGRL

Can everyone join me in wishing NJGUDGRL happy birthday ?

HAPPY FRIDAY

Yall not what that means.. LOL..
We are all sexually beings !

Fellas do you look to see if a woman has that beautiful Camel Toe? Why?

Women do you look for a bulge? Why?

SLEEPY TIME

I was talking this over with a friend last night and he was like he really hates when his girl comes to bed with a T-shirt on. He was like he would rather she come to bed every night with a lil sexy bra and pantie set. Said that it makes him feel like he is sleeping with a grown woman and not a young girl.... What do you guys think about that?

LOVE

Do you think its possible to be in love with 2 people at once?

Also, do you think you can love anybody like your first love?

VOTING

I was listening to the radio this morning and all I heard were people talking about how if they vote early they feel as if there vote will not count.

Please express your thoughts.

Just in need of a little advise...

Can someone explain why we dont like to be alone. I have been without a mate in my life for around a year now and im lonely why is it that? Why cant we just learn to be our own company......

RELATIONSHIP

"Everyone says that communication is the key in a relationship. If this is the case then why is it so hard to communicate openly and honestly with your partner?”

POLLS

If you follows the Polls and media early voting is on the rise and Obama is leading. Do you agree with the polls? Do you think the media is trying to influence our voting by constantly broadcasting this information?

IRAQ

Why are we really in Iraq? And Why can't we pull the troops out?

Gold Digger vs Sex

Why is it when a woman feels like a man should provide for her in a certain way she is considered a gold digger. But nothing is said when a man demands or should I say expect sex? Why doesnt he get a bad name?

Women and Politics

Do you think that is coincidence or is it that men generally are more in tune with politics than females are?

Marriage

Why do you think his hard for black woman to get married?

Too Much Money

Obama has raised record breaking amounts of money. What do you think of McCain making reference to the Watergate scandal regarding how much money Obama is spending?

What do you think of the length of time candidates campaign?

Inexperience

I read on yahoo news yesterday Biden said if the Obama/Biden ticket won, one of the international countries would try the US because of Obama's lack of experience.

Do you agree or disagree and why?

What happens next

what if any fall out would occur if the McCain/Palin ticket won the election and McCain died with in the first 2 years of this term?

Colin Powell Endorsement

By now everyone has heard that Colin Powell endorsed Obama. Some people say because Obama is black Powell did the right thing. Obama is getting alot of support from the black community but hasn't real done any campaigning in the black community.
What's up with that? And most want to support his socialist ideas?

Do you think Powell will make a difference?

teen pregnancy

My 19 year old daughter told me she is pregnant. She is unmarried and hasn't finished college. I am disappointed because they have become another statistic. Some people say it's the parents forth. Others says I should be happy.

What are your thoughts ?
What are your thoughts on teen pregnacy?
How do we stop and educate our teens put an end to the cycle in our communities?

Abortion

This is a major difference between the Presidential candidates. Colin Powell endorsed Barack partial based on his views of abortions.
Do you believe in the right to choose?
What are your thoughts?

Interacial Dating

I remember back in the days it was a prize for a black man to date a white woman. The same was true for a white man dating a black woman. I thought in 2008, people's feelings have changed and it's about who makes you happy. But I find in the south it still bothers alot of people.

What are your thoughts ?
Would you date outside of your race? Why or why not

Family

How do you think not having fathers in the home or single family homes effect America's view on family.

Masturbation

We know everybody pleasures themselves with a GOOD NUT ! Some more often that others.

Does it bother you when your man masturbates?

Does it bother you when your woman masturbates?

Men would it bother you if your woman was constantly using her toy when u weren't around?

HAPPY FRIDAY !!!!!

For those of yall that don't know I am a freak to a point. I like to role play thats until this girl asked me to let her TIE ME UP ! while she has fun. The 1st thing that came to mind was slavery is over. You ain't tying me up.

question - Do you role play and what have you done?

Have your fullfilled your fantasies if so what was it? If not what is your fantasy ?

Don't lie because I know of few of you are still having boring SEX..LOL

Pickup Artist

Do pickup lines really work?
What is the best line a guy or girl ever used on you?
What is the best line you used that worked?

Debate !

Last night most of us watched the debate. What are your thoughts? What did you think of the tone?

Obama seem poised but at times it appears McCain was whipping his butt!

Voting

Why is it that people are so into sports when they have no control over what happens. But when it comes to voting they always make the comment "why vote its not going to make a difference anyway?

Do you think McCain will be able to make a comeback? Should Obama play it safe, which is what he has been doing?

Breast Cancer

Would a man date a woman who had both her breast remove because of breast cancer?

Second would a woman have both of them remove to avoid being tested reg for the disease?

Should VICK Play

Arthur Blanks said he thinks Mike Vick should be able to play again and he is rehabilitated. But not in Atl!
Do you think Vick should play ?

What the fuck is wrong with PACMAN JONES ?

Best Friends

Can your mate be your best friend ? Should you discus EVERYTHING with them ? If not what type of things are off limits ?

Love

How do you love someone with out losing yourself?

Why do we have so much trouble accepting, giving and making love last?

Sticky Situation

I have a good friend! Her homegirl's husband propositioned her. She is trying to decide if she should tell her girl. I told her HELL YES ! The real problem is we all know she is loose (yes she loves penis), so she thinks her girl won't believe her because of her history?

Would you tell ? And if your married or dating would you believe if your loose friend came to you ?

Adoption

I believe every child should have a safe and loving home. Celebrities adopting 3 world country children appears to be the new FAD.

Should parents be able to adopt children outside of their race ?

Is Obama really Black ?

His white grandparents raised him from 6-18yrs old in Hawaii. So from 2-6yrs, he was raised in Indonesia with his white mother and her Indonesian husband.

why do people think obama is so black?

what does this man know about being black they ask?

50/50

My homebody and I had a debate about how a household should be ran. He feels the man should pay the biggest bill in the house, ie mortage. The wife pays the utilites.
I feel the household bills should be split 50/50 down the middle to the last penny!
Of course yall know I am correct on this one.

What are your thoughts ?

Are we in a RECESSION !

Both candiates say they have the magic key to fixing the economy. I don't believe either one ! Personally I think we are in a recession.
What are your thoughts ? Do you think either candidate can fix this within the 1st 2 years of their term?

HAPPY FRIDAY - LETS HAVE SOME FUN !

This question came from my homie !

For men and woman - Do you prefer thongs, boy shorts or G-string ? Which one you think is sexier? What do you prefer to see your woman in or woman which one your man prefers to see you in?

Do you prefer hairy, trimmed or bald - VaJayJay

Constructive Criticism

If someone came to you and pointed out things in your character that are not becoming, would you be offended or would you take it for face value and do a self check.

Can you handle criticism or will you fly off the handle?

Part 2
Name 5 things your like about yourself?

To Pay a bill or Not

I had an interesting conversation with a friend last night. She feels if your dating someone for at least 6 months or more. Then he should offer to help his woman out. Which could mean paying a bill that month, showing up with groceries, etc.

I think that is crazy ! They are your bills ! If we are living together then yes, but not if i have my own household to maintain ! Heck she should pay one of my bills !

What are your thoughts ?

McCain vs Obama negative campaigns

Negative energy brings about negative results !

What are your thoughts about the negative campaigns from each party ?

Dem can get 60 seats in the Senate

Click on the title and read the story on CNN. To post a comment click on comment are the bottom of this post

Winning a "magic 60" could prevent GOP from blocking legislation

Of the 35 Senate seats on the line this year, 23 are held by Republicans. Do you realize DEM's would have the ability to pass any legislation they wanted through the senate.

DEBATE

What did you think of yesterday's Debate !

Was there a winner or loser ?

Dating part 2

As we know Bishop Weeks a (convicted woman abuser)is searching for a wife. I have friends that will date a person like this or someone they know is a chronic cheater, liar etc.

My question - Why do men/woman date someone they know has a questionable character?

Dating in ATL

I think we have all heard if you want your relationship to last don't move to Atlanta. Also don't marry a native Atlantan. The notion is women down here will do anything to be with a man even if he is married.
My question - Are women so desperate they will accept anything to be with a man?

Why does the side chick allow a man to run their lives like he doesn't have some1 at home?

I Love YOU ? Do you Love ME !

What happens if you tell someone you love them and they say they don't love you. Do you continue with them or leave?

Does Love Hurt !

Why does Love hurt!

Love is an affectioniate feeling you have for another person and the way you choose to display that affection. I remember love was synonymous with birds and the bees, riding down the country side, holding hands, kissing until your mouth hurt, brushing her hair, rubbing his feet.

Now depending on who you ask Love has evolved into a niche product where only a few people can offer encouraging words about it. Others relate it to pain they felt or are feeling and how a heartless person destroyed that. It has become synonymous with the toy in the window you can’t have, fear of getting that first needle, divorce, looking out the window on a rainy day.

Love doesn’t hurt, people hurt people. We choose to give our heart to undeserving people and when they don’t reciprocate those feelings, that's what hurts. Pain is inevitable but misery is a choice. We have the power to choose how much pain we are willing to endure. We wait hoping this person will see the good in me and change. Spend countless days going above and beyond to prove we are the best candidate. When in reality we are really subscribing to an expired service that isn’t taking any new customers. In our search we allow misery to become a habit that shapes our outlook on love. Continuing to love the same type of behaviors and expecting a different result. I have learned people love differently, but is your love something that brings the best or worst out our me, one that has me dreamy or on edge.

Caring or Love

What is the difference between caring about someone and love?
Do you believe in Love?

Commitment or Love

What's most important in a relationship Commitment? or Being in-Love?

VP Debate Last Night

Who was the the Winner ?

What did you think of both candidates performance?

VP Debate

Whats your opinion on VP debate tonight ?

What do men want

Men always say they want a real woman! One they can watch the game with, go to the stip club, hang with him and his friends and still have good sex.

But when a man gets that he doesn't know how to keep it. We are cool with her being all those things until we catch feelings, then we don't want her around our friends too long. She can't come to the club with us no more. Whats up that ?

1st Date

From a woman's stand point whats the best thing to do on a first date?

Is sex on the 1st date ok ? Remember we are in 2008 !

Curious or Bisexual

My homegirl was involved with a women for about 6 months. She said she will never date another woman. She says she was just curious.

If a woman dates another woman is she curious, Bi, or Gay?

What is a man does this, is he Gay, curious or Bi?

Sensitive Man

My homeboy is a punk for this woman. He basically caters to her every need, with time, money etc. If she calls he runs. They have no intimate relationship and she makes it clear they are just FRIENDS.

Women, Would you date a man that is sensitive and always accomodating to your needs?

Fellas, would you consider your homeboy a Punk if he was sensitive and always accomodating to his woman's needs?

Choice

The Presidential race is tight according to polls. The party lines are almost split down the middle, it appears some are just affected by the Obama or Palin factor. But don't truly know what their party represents.

Are you a Republican or Democrat and why ?

Sex

How important is oral sex in a relationship ?

HAPPY WEDNESDAY !!!!

I am shocked to have met and become friends with the last American Oral Virgin. Yes my friend says she has NEVER EVER EVER given HEAD, sang into the microphone. I am still trying to figure out how she kept a BF. LOL ! She feels that is something to possible save for marriage.

My question Are you waiting for marriage to engage in specific sexual activity?