Friday, February 27, 2009
Thoughtful or a Bug-a-Boo
When your interested in someone and lets say you have been talking for a couple of weeks, how often should you call? Should call when you get the urge or just wait for that person to call you. Does me calling say I want you and i'm available and thinking of you? Does me waiting for you to call me say i'm not too available? What are your thoughts.
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I think you should call when you get the urge...all that playing around and hard to get game, not trying to look pityful is tired! Just do what you feel.
I agree with ConRhonda. However, if u calling someone and they act like u are a Bug-a-Boo, then fall back and let that person contact u. The person may be dealing with other things in their life that it is impossible to focus on giving attention to you. This is a very good topic. Actually I'am going through this similar situation and REFUSE to call the guy because I dnt want him to think I'am a Bug-a-Boo or that he got it like that.
when it first starts I try not to call to much I like for a guy to show me a lot of interest first to be honest I let him build the pace...
I usually dont call at all, or I only return phone calls. I am one of those people that dont want to seem like a bug-a-boo. I must admit that I think I come off as just being unavailable. I'm in this situation now and I just dont know how to balance letting him know that I'm thinking of him without feeling like I'm being pushy. Often times I just send a text, I know this is a little cowardly and I need to work on it.
I agree with ConRonda completely!
What your thought on this one Dakim
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