Friday, February 13, 2009
Love and Compatibility
“What does it really mean to be compatible and to complement your partner in 2009? Are there some specific areas that you and your partner must be compatible in? What are those areas and why are they so important? Is being sexually compatible the only thing that most men worry about? Are women too concerned with financial compatibility? Beyond the compatibility we desire in male / female relationships, what about the need we feel to be compatible with people we have to deal with everyday? Why do we pressure ourselves, feeling we have to make every person with whom we come into contact like us? How do we overcome our need to be liked and to complement everyone we meet?”
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the fear of rejection is what creates the pressure to be liked by everyone. we are conditioned as children to play with everyone, to all get alongfrom recess to general outside play. we learn that to not be accepted by the group is to mean that you are not normal. perhaps an outcast. which of course is undesireable. so we grow older with this subconcious will to be liked. until of course no one likes you then you accept it and become bitter. i hope my statement is relevant to the post
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