My friend stated that he doesnt want to be in a relationship. Meaning doesnt really want to be committed to anyone... but at the same time he has this one chick that he allows to come over to the house whenever she wants she cooks and cleans waits for him to come home at night around 3 in the morning just everything I think a girlfriend would do without the title.
Is he leading her on? even tho he tells her he isnt ready for a relationship but I feel that his actions are saying something different.
So do you go off of another person actions toward you or do you listen to what they tell you?
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Well hopefully they have talked about whether or not they want to be in this type of relationship. She could want to be just hanging out with him and cool with how things are. Then again sometimes people hang around thinking that eventually that person will come around and change their mind about the relationship. I don't think he's leading her on and I think she's sticking around and doing all that because she wants to. She has no right to go off he told her the deal straight up its up to her whether or not she will listen. And seems to be doing her.
I think she is leading herself on .. typical woman doing what she has to do to ware him down .. She is not making him work for it.
doesn't sound like he is interested in working for it, he said he wasn't looking for a relationship
do both.. the actions should confirm their words
well yes, he is leading her on. if he as already told her that he does not want a relationship but she is STILL in the spot doing girlfriend things, then she is hard headed. if he hasn't said this then maybe he should so she can stop playing "wifey". see this is the problem with so many of us women. we don't listen to what men are saying. yes, he says one thing and does another but if he actually told you he wasn't feelin you on that level and you continue to act like you are his girl, don't be mad when you see him doing his thing.
Exactly Quantum,
He is leading her on. If he doesnt want a relationship then who gave her a key to the house? Who lets her in to cook and clean? No relationship doesnt come with maid service. On the other hand she is contributing to the situation cause she should go based on what he said cause she is the one looking like Boo Boo the fool.
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