Monday, November 10, 2008

Why does sex stop

Question.. Most married people or people that have been in a long time relationship say sex drastically stops.. Can anyone tell me why?

10 comments:

StS said...

They forget the central relationship in the midst of everyday life ..

***sexyblack*** said...

I WOULDN'T SAY DRASTICALLY STOPS, SLOWS DOWN, MAYBE? HELL, WE GET TIRED. WE BEEN SEXING EVERY DAY AND NIGHT WHEN IT'S NEW. AFTER TIME, IT JUST BECOMES ROUTINE. THEN REALITY SETS IN... WORK, KIDS, HOUSE DUTIES, AND THEN BILLS, BILLS, AND MORE BILLS..LOL WHEN YOUR BRAIN IS TIRED, USUALLY EVERYTHING IS TIRED...

Dakim said...

LOL.. aight got you sexyblack.

sts so you think slow down of sex is problems in the relationship?

StS said...

Yes .. I gave up coffee .. I needs my wake me up .. Its a matter of health not another chore

ConRonda said...

I think you forget about the importance affection and all the above. Not dating, having fun, then eventually sex goes out the window. I dont necessarily think its because you are tired. But more so it goes on the back burner along with all the other things that once made you happy.

***sexyblack*** said...

now when i gave my comment, i was speaking from a woman perspective... i don't know not one man that has this problem. his will to slow down usually is because of understanding of his woman... if your man isn't sexing you or trying to sex you, then this is a problem. they can drink a red bull and keep it moving even when they should be exausted... unless he has diabetes or old age....lol

***sexyblack*** said...

well conronda, with me it usually because im tired... because my mind is there, my body just isn't. i can fall asleep on what im getting ready to do before i actually do...lol

ConRonda said...

ok i feel ya there but hell i have a high sex drive so im always ready to play, lol

ConRonda said...

Let me ask you guys this...does it ever become a job more than pleasure?

StS said...

NO .. it should always be pleasure .. why should something that I need, crave, and love be just a job. More like a daily hobby :)