I saw this post on another blog but it is very true!!!
" I'm tired of women nagging and whining. If you want to know why we don't respond to how you "communicate" with us it’s because we don’t have the secret decoder gene or time to decode chick. Stop whining. Stop nagging. We don't respond because we tune you out. As soon as you hit that...umm...tone....and every man knows...THAT TONE.."
Yall sound like a pitbull in the rain..
Fellas I know yall can relate to this one
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See the argument is that we (men and women) communicate differently, but when we do try and communicate in ladesse, you don't like what we have to say or we weren't supposed to try and fix the problem, you just wanted us to let you vent. When we don't respond we aren't communicating. Whinning and nagging will only get you placated, and eventually sounds just like Charlie Brown's teacher.
Boom goes the dynomite
so how do you fix that?
Women and men communicate differently. We (women) talk too much and you (men) don't talk enough. Women just nees a sounding board. We are fully capable of solving our own issues .. we just have to get out. I think men whine and nag us with their actions .. that gets on our nerves just as bad. Keep in mind that this is a parallel universe .. we all do the same things just in different forms .. fellas you are not exempt
STS - yall have to take time and understand a man we are fixers. We can be good listeners at times.. but know we are constantly looking for solution, no need stress over something that can be fixed..
Hehehehe.. We don't nag.
How do you feel we nag with out actions?
Conrhonda.. we fix it by yall stop talking so much.. LOL.. just joking.
I think it is taking the time to really get to know each other outside of sex
I think that sometimes nagging is in order. I mean for the most part I dont think that men listen to there mate and you think its nagging but if I have it 2 times then why should have to keep saying it and now you feel like its naggining man pleaseeee.. you men at just big babies......
Werd, hush all that fuss.
Not necessarly Star, you may have said it 2 times and the guy heard it both times. Continueing to bring it up is just beating a dead horse, also known as a nag, (just a little origin of the term for you). Men may be big babies, but a baby will hush up eventually, SOME women just keep droning on about the same moot point
you know what this is my personal opinion on this issue. I think everyone needs to be considerate. Both parties are usually workin...therefore I think we both need to be more aware of frustration from work and what ever else. Dont be coming home starting off with what went wrong. How about starting with a hug or kiss or asking how they are.
But at times I think women do feel overwhelmed and look to their mate for support. So we do tend to vent with you. Men are known to be the rock per say. Not showing to much emotion and fixing all problems. However, I think you need to pay attention to how you affect your mate so that you dont get on their nerves either way be it ignoring or nagging!
Dakim .. what you are missing is the fact that in communication .. you have to first know your audience. So when a woman is venting .. its not because you we want you to fix it .. sometimes you are going to have to listen.
Men nag with their actions by not listening to us, (some of you don't hide that you are not actively listening very well) playing too much Xbox, and not taking out the trash .. lol. The point is men are action oriented so you show us your interest or lack there of with your actions more than words.
(tunning out) the blog to much whinning going on. = )
So you do recognize whinning, you just choose not to stop doing it.
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