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I think everyone has been cheated on before. Remember the song by salt and pepper "I'll take your man". My question is can another person really take your man or woman?
I don't think people can take someone away from you .. they give themselves away. If a woman/man wants to be so benevolent .. all you can really do is let them go, Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't truly want to be with just you?
Dakim .. we tell ourselves so many lies to keep ourselves in the situation. I discovered that with my last break up .. I told myself so many lies to cover up what was right in front me .. very sad. Once I stopped being so stupid and started accepting everything for what it was .. the pain started going away and I was able to move on :)
Ah that is a negative. How can you say that someone can be taken because they are not wanted? You do what you want to do. Their significant other can be pleasing but it just be something new. Temptations, excitement, and what ever else. It is not totally dependent on the significant other.
Conronda I'm just saying that yeah there are people that are in very good relationships and somebody steps out because they are greedy. But there are people out there that have tried everything in their power to hold their relationships together and if that person keeps getting rejected they will become very vulnerable and that will give someone the perfect opportunity to come in and take whats yours. Thats why I said yeah if a persons spouse don't want them you bet they are going to opt out for the new person thats saying all the right stuff. Bottom line if you aren't taking care of home somebody else will.
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I don't think people can take someone away from you .. they give themselves away. If a woman/man wants to be so benevolent .. all you can really do is let them go, Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't truly want to be with just you?
I agree but we all know crazy people that think, someone took a person instead of he or she really didn't want me.
Dakim .. we tell ourselves so many lies to keep ourselves in the situation. I discovered that with my last break up .. I told myself so many lies to cover up what was right in front me .. very sad. Once I stopped being so stupid and started accepting everything for what it was .. the pain started going away and I was able to move on :)
No no one can't Take whats yours
I believe the answer is yes. But it can only be yes if the person that you are trying to take isn't wanted by his spouse/significant other.
Knobles....
Ah that is a negative. How can you say that someone can be taken because they are not wanted? You do what you want to do. Their significant other can be pleasing but it just be something new. Temptations, excitement, and what ever else. It is not totally dependent on the significant other.
Conronda I'm just saying that yeah there are people that are in very good relationships and somebody steps out because they are greedy. But there are people out there that have tried everything in their power to hold their relationships together and if that person keeps getting rejected they will become very vulnerable and that will give someone the perfect opportunity to come in and take whats yours. Thats why I said yeah if a persons spouse don't want them you bet they are going to opt out for the new person thats saying all the right stuff. Bottom line if you aren't taking care of home somebody else will.
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