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What is good to one may not be the same for another.
The best definition I think is one that has your back through think or thin. Takes care of his family and responsiblites, hard worker, spiritual and complement you.
I think woman are caught in the bad guy syndrome and when they get a stereotypical good man. They bring too much baggage with them and don't know how to love, respect and take care of that man. But constantly complain they can find a good man.
What is your definition of a good man? If you don't have one or have ran one away, WHY ?
FYI, I love woman, this is a question that a good friend of mines asked to post.
If a women has a good man and does not know how to keep him maybe she is a women who has been hurt before and now her gaurds are up maybe she is a women who has never been told what a goodman is.......
Good day. Im a "Good Women" and all of the men I have had in my travels have been HURT by women. So it has been hard for me to get them to see that there are Good Women on Earth that is not wanting to HURT them. I've been having to PUSH/PULL hard to get through the gates/guards that the men have put up around their hearts for protection from Women. I have been having to answers the following questions:
Why aren't you CRAZY? What makes you different from them? How can I be for sure you aren't CRAZY?
And lots of others!! Women have been using Men/Men have been using Women for their money and love for such a long time. Want all of you to know that there are still a lot of good WOMEN and MEN on Earth. When you get one, please make sure you treat them like you would treat yourself!!
I think they are so use to being let down and dealing with bad ones that is what they expect. When they get someone that is good they may find the guy disingenuous.
I think it goes both ways, there are alot of good men and women, its just when you final get to the person that will treat you right I think in your mind your thinking they all will turn out to hurt you in the end.
A friend of mine actually dumped a guy who was "too good" for her? Crazy. I was so surprised when she got rid of him, he was too smart, nice, caring, concerned etc. When she told me this, I looked at her and asked her if she was on drugs because her reasoning was so dumb...her response was that no one ever loved her that way not even her father and it scared her. She felt that she wasn't good enough for him.
That was the saddest thing I ever heard. Funny though she is still single in and out of bad relationsips but she still talks about the one who got away....
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please define a good man
What is good to one may not be the same for another.
The best definition I think is one that has your back through think or thin. Takes care of his family and responsiblites, hard worker, spiritual and complement you.
I think woman are caught in the bad guy syndrome and when they get a stereotypical good man. They bring too much baggage with them and don't know how to love, respect and take care of that man. But constantly complain they can find a good man.
What is your definition of a good man? If you don't have one or have ran one away, WHY ?
FYI, I love woman, this is a question that a good friend of mines asked to post.
I have never had a man, but I can equate to a guy having a good woman and not keeping. You didn't known what you had until you lost it.
If a women has a good man and does not know how to keep him maybe she is a women who has been hurt before and now her gaurds are up maybe she is a women who has never been told what a goodman is.......
Good day. Im a "Good Women" and all of the men I have had in my travels have been HURT by women. So it has been hard for me to get them to see that there are Good Women on Earth that is not wanting to HURT them. I've been having to PUSH/PULL hard to get through the gates/guards that the men have put up around their hearts for protection from Women. I have been having to answers the following questions:
Why aren't you CRAZY?
What makes you different from them?
How can I be for sure you aren't CRAZY?
And lots of others!! Women have been using Men/Men have been using Women for their money and love for such a long time. Want all of you to know that there are still a lot of good WOMEN and MEN on Earth. When you get one, please make sure you treat them like you would treat yourself!!
From a Good Women who is ANGRY!!
I think they are so use to being let down and dealing with bad ones that is what they expect. When they get someone that is good they may find the guy disingenuous.
My two cents
I think it goes both ways, there are alot of good men and women, its just when you final get to the person that will treat you right I think in your mind your thinking they all will turn out to hurt you in the end.
I have no idea how this can be turned around.
AMEN NJGUDGRL!!!
A friend of mine actually dumped a guy who was "too good" for her? Crazy. I was so surprised when she got rid of him, he was too smart, nice, caring, concerned etc. When she told me this, I looked at her and asked her if she was on drugs because her reasoning was so dumb...her response was that no one ever loved her that way not even her father and it scared her. She felt that she wasn't good enough for him.
That was the saddest thing I ever heard. Funny though she is still single in and out of bad relationsips but she still talks about the one who got away....
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