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6 months... hmmm im thinking a year if not longer, I mean I'm just not really into the living together thing, I guess I still feel like I need my own space... I mean if I get married sometime down the line there always going to be there so I think I would only do if and only if the dude is marriage worthy...
6 months, you could install a revolving door on your place with a 6 month waiting period before moving someone in. I probably would cohabitate once we have agreed upon a wedding date, but would probably keep my own place until after we actually get married. The last thing you wanna do is be stuck out in the wind because your place go and then get the boot for whatever reason. Besides, if you have 2 homes, you can always go to the other place for a 'night out'
Naw, even if the sex is good and you caught feelings, you need to let it be known that they need to go visit their own TV, its lonely. They can come back in 2 days, but you need for them to hit the bricks for a second.
No I'm just kidding. It depends on the situation. You really never knows someone. As long as the two get along and they both handle the household business, because after the great sex, reality still hit. It's not like high school were you can lay up all day and you don't have to worry about life. Often men forget that and they want to play house but don't want to take on the responsiblity of playing house.
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I think at least 6 months.
Anyone that wants to move in sooner than that, RUN FOREST RUN FOREST !
There might be some other issues going on !
6 months... hmmm im thinking a year if not longer, I mean I'm just not really into the living together thing, I guess I still feel like I need my own space... I mean if I get married sometime down the line there always going to be there so I think I would only do if and only if the dude is marriage worthy...
You probably SHOULD wait until you get married. I've never lived with a man before but I love the "spend the night".
In my situation, maybe I'll do it whenever I get engaged, at the earliest.
If the economy keeps going to hell, it might be within 30 days...LOL...SIKE!!
6 months, you could install a revolving door on your place with a 6 month waiting period before moving someone in. I probably would cohabitate once we have agreed upon a wedding date, but would probably keep my own place until after we actually get married. The last thing you wanna do is be stuck out in the wind because your place go and then get the boot for whatever reason. Besides, if you have 2 homes, you can always go to the other place for a 'night out'
After being married. I say don't ever move in. Keep separate places you might stay married forever that way !!!!!!
If they stay over 3 nights or more a week, you've already moved in!
man no your not cause you can always tell that MF to get up and go home, I dont care if they over 5 nights a week....
goldenstar - come on we all know once you catch feelings it is difficult to tell someone leave just like that especially if the sex is good.
Naw, even if the sex is good and you caught feelings, you need to let it be known that they need to go visit their own TV, its lonely. They can come back in 2 days, but you need for them to hit the bricks for a second.
Dont move in until marriage.
I think they should never move in. Just pay the bills and sex occasionally.
No I'm just kidding. It depends on the situation. You really never knows someone. As long as the two get along and they both handle the household business, because after the great sex, reality still hit. It's not like high school were you can lay up all day and you don't have to worry about life. Often men forget that and they want to play house but don't want to take on the responsiblity of playing house.
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