Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Questions if your thinking about marriage!

What do you expect your marriage and standard of living to be like after five years?

How long after marriage will you begin having children and how many?

What would you do if you cannot conceive children of your own?

How often do you expect to have sex?

Happy New Year !!!!

14 comments:

Dakim said...

If I get married again, I expect to be living a very good life. Living below our means yet not wanting for anything.

I think couples should wait 2yrs before having kids of their own.

I would adopt if my wife couldn't conceive and child meant that much to her. Now if she was cool with mines that would be better..

Expect sex at least 4 times a week

Roshanda Pearl said...

I mean really you been gone for a week and this is what you come back with.

Blissful said...

After 5 yrs I still want to stay being in love with my husband and continue doing the wifely duty as if we were still newlyweds.

Easy Rider said...

If, and thats a big if, I were to contemplate suicide/marriage I would have to wait at least 2 yrs before having kids. I would want to enjoy the fruits of marriage before having the freedom taken away by kids. If we (she or I) couldn't conceive kids, we would just not have kids, parenthood isn't for everyone, we can get a dog. I guess I would expect sex...a lot, often and frequently, but we all know that marriage is a trick women invented to stop having sex.

Easy Rider said...

oh yeah, 5 yrs later, I would still be wanting to sneak in the shower with her and playing 'grab ass' when I think no one is looking, and able to agree to disagree.

Dakim said...

GS I have been gone and I see your mouth is as smart as it was when I left.

Roshanda Pearl said...

I expect to my marriage to really be like a friendship, I hope that we never start to resent on another which that whats start to happen after some time.

I could have kids right off cause I mean really you should have know the person for a while and most of us are living like we already married anyway.

If I couldnt I think I would just be a great aunt and have a couple of doggies.

And woudl expect sec at least 3 times a week

ConRonda said...

When I get married I expect it to be a great time of living. Learing how to adjust to each other and not being crusty, lol.

I want to wait 3-4yrs after marriage before kidsa and i want a damn tribe like 4 rug rats or 3, lol.

If I cant conceive I would try to adopt i suppose.

I want sex everyday! Booyaa Baby. Everyday for real no joking

Dakim said...

Blissful you might be a good wife.. if after 5 yrs u haven't cut off sex and still doing wifey duties..

ES - I with u on that one.. nothing like grabbing a butt cheek when no1 is looking

Dakim said...

Ronda you nasty, everyday.. do u realize the dingaling isn't a toy.. we need to rest and get going again.. LMBO

ConRonda said...

Dakim
Maybe YOU just need a rest :-)

StS said...

Really Dakim??? This is a very loaded question .. My answer is simply go with the flow .. I don't believe in a marriage timeline .. if I get knocked up on the honeymoon .. guess what ?? We's having a baby in 9 months .. I have no problem getting a surrogant if we can't conceive .. Sex should be as often is possible.

Anonymous said...

Well I've been married for one very rocky year and I'm extremely happy that we have waited to have kids. Just being married is an adjustment enough adding kids right away would complicate matters. I think you need at least two years in before you even think child. Sex I want it more often than my husband does the myth about sex dies after marriage is so true! And after two years when we make our go for a kid and it doesn't happen then adoption would be the very last result.

Dakim said...

Has things gotten better? If they don't get better will you continue to try for kids?
What the biggest lesson you learned from marriage?

You found out sex dies after marriage is not a myth. LOL..