How long do you keep giving your friends advice and they continue to stay in the same situation.
Good friend of mines wife is cheating on him, it's obvious to me and him. Being he hasn't caught her he doesn't want to believe it. She treats him like trash and he is constantly coming to me for my advice and opinion. This is my homie, but I'm at the point where I am tried of giving him any info..
What are your thoughts... How long do you keep giving friends advice and they are making the same mistakes?
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You stop giving NEW advice when you have to ask other people when is it time to stop. When they asks you 'What do I do?' just tell them the same thing everytime, they aren't listening anyway so they won't realize you are just repeating yourself.
I think you repeat it until they get it....its your friend, but stop listening to new BS because it doesnt really matter what the new problem or issue cause your still going to have the same answer.
Always be honest .. Next time he asks you .. be silent. When he says "hello?" say "I am listening are you?" He needs to listen to himself and wake up. You can talk to ppl until you are blue in the face but until they really start listening to themself, they won't get it .. Give him the opportunity to reflect ..
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