Friday, January 30, 2009

Could she be a freak too !!!

My cousin is married and has a girlfriend. They have been together about 1yr. She knows about his wife. Me and his wife are cool considering they have been for 6years.

He is going out tonight and set me up on a blind date with his girlfriend's friend. I told him I'm not interested. My theory is his girlfriend doesn't have many morals. Her friend must not have morals either, Or they would be trying to double date.
Am I disqualifing what could be a good woman that just has a messed up friend?
What do you think?

15 comments:

Unknown said...

I would go just for the hell of it. My curiosity takes the best of me sometimes. Just going doesn't mean you are looking for a relationship but just hang out and have fun!

KNobles said...

Yeah I think you are reading a bit more into it Dakim. I'd go on the date and have some fun I mean its not like you are about to marry her or anything. Have some fun and enjoy yourself

Easy Rider said...

besides, you said maybe they want to double date. Nothing ventured, nothing gained

Roshanda Pearl said...

I say HELL NO !!!! dakim is looking for a nice woman someone he can take on a couple of dates, I think if your starting out with doubt then maybe you dont need to do it

Dakim said...

Thanks for the response. I am thinking I will not take her serious because I already think she is like her girl. Birds of a flock idea.

But I guess at a min it would be someone to knock off right?

Roshanda Pearl said...

wow... wow....

StS said...

As much as we want to believe that bird of a feather flock together .. its not true .. she could be a really good woman.

HOWEVER .. this is a messy situation and I do not know why your cousin is trying to involve ppl in his mess. Maybe you guys can meet alone with out the other "couple." This has the potential to be real ugly.

Easy Rider said...

it sounds like your cousin is settin up with someone to knock off, I am sure his girlfriend has mentioned something about this girl to make him agree to set you out with her.

Unknown said...

You can't assume just because the friend is a home wrecker that she is the same way. We all have friends or acquaintances that do things thats not morally right, it doesnt mean that the whole clique is the same way. Go on the date and see how she is. Dont assume the worst. She might be a nice person.

Blissful said...

Since you say bird of a feather flock together, are you a cheater like your cousin? If you're not, you cant assume that she is.

StS said...

U better say it Blissful!

Easy Rider said...

maybe the feather of the bird that he flocks to is the one that shares a genetic code with him, he is refering to his cousin's girlfriend's friend, not his cousin's girlfriend's cousin. Doesn't genetically related to me.

Dakim said...

I am double standard and birds of a flock hang together when it comes to women. At this stage of the game. Women are not going to associate themselves with women of lower quality.

ES - I agree I think my cousin saw chick was a freak and figured he would hook me up. Based on her friend and he girl probably playing along with it..
Thats how women do..

StS said...

Dakim .. I am offended that you think that in a group of women that you think that we are all alike .. you are wrong! I have all kinds of women in my life and we are all VERY different and that is what enriches our friendship .. Let's stay away from such generalizations.

Dakim said...

StS.. Why offended because I think most older women would hang with women more on their level?