We have all been in a toxic relationship and stayed too long.
Why didn't you want to leave? What was the turning point that caused you to leave?
What did you learn about yourself?
We all peoples, so don't feel embarrassed to sit by the fireplace and let it all out....
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not wanting to admit rejection......
ok, im puttin myself out there and yall don't know but it is what it is.
someone blows your mind (not just sex)that you can't imagine things not working out
you see the potential and not ready to give up...u keep thinking that somehow they will see how good you are..
sounds crazy but sometimes people think that...
u want to exhaust all efforts so you never ask that question, what if....
the bottom line if it don't fit, don't force it right but sometimes your heart don't wanna hear all that...
u meet someone that is giving you what u want emotional, intellectually, physically and the connection is so great that u don't believe it cannot work...
ok, now that i've shared all that....ima shut up...LOL
I didn't want to leave because I was trying to see the good in her and figured if she just changed a tad bit and work with me we could of had a beautiful thing. The turning point was accepting I was being used and every possible angle. In addition to the fact she was BONEING someone else. What's crazy if she would have only had sex once or twice I would have accepted it. what I learned about myself.. is LOVE will allow you to accpet a bunch of bull crap
i understand Dakim..very well..and in my case even with all that i know...part of me wants to believe he really really cares but my main issue is that we were just starting to get on the level where we were going to really do this thing and it fell apart and i had alot of unanswered questions and a large part of me just feels that we didn't exhaust any efforts..most would ask, why bother if it aint right but my heart says the chapter nor the book is closed...and the crazy part of me wants to finish it. make sense?
Dakim,
I thought we covered this already. But first off you want to try to make things work. Then the fact of rejection, loneliness, love, etc.
In the end I think you learn how to be honest with yourself! Becoming more in tune with what you want from a relationship and your mate. Also what to watch for that may be what you don't want
I stayed because I had kids, and I wanted the image of happiness and everything being okay, which was the same reason why I got married.
I stayed because I was hurting and it really didn't have to do with him but at the time my life was turning upside down and I felt I needed to hold on to something .. anything. Once I lost everything in my life was completely upside down .. I just let go .. I was in so much pain and he wasn't making it better .. When I let go, God caught me and I have been GREAT ever since.
Lisa Maria Carroll and STS and EB glad GOD caught all of us and we are able to discuss in with a sane mind.
Absolutely ..
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