Monday, December 8, 2008
Daughter Update
I have decided not to allow my daughter and her BF to live with me. Mainly because they aren't married and I don't want to force them into marriage. I suggested she move in with me or her mother and he live with his mother. They set a goal and save to get a place. Her comment was that could take a couple of years. So, they have decided to stay in his mother's apt which will be over crowded. Hey your making a grown up decision, that is your choice. That's how I see it. I told them I still love her and will help them where I can. Thanks everyone for they comments and suggestions.
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9 comments:
I think you made the right decision, at least your daughter knows that you are there for her. Hopefully her boyfriend will man-up and get a place for them to raise there child.I will keep her and her situation in my Prayers....
I think you made a great choice not letting the bfriend come, down the road she will see the bigger picture.. But I do hope that he will man up and do what needs to be done to provide a home for his child.
Yeah, good choice, but I hope THEY BOTH grow up and do what is necessary to be were they want to be. Both posters commented about him 'manning up', since they can't afford a place of their own, sounds like they should to TEAM UP and getter done
hold up easy rider, if I man came to ask me to live with him why wouldnt I be telling him to man up thats his child and his lady he needs to make sure that his home is taking care of... period...
yes it is his child as much as it is her child, which is why I said they need to team up, that doesn't diminish the fact that he needs to do more.
um hm
ES - I agree with you it about them doing it together. He didn't lay down alone. That is point I am trying to get them to understand.. they need to do it again.
do what again?
I think you made a wise decision. They need to figure things out and he needs to step as a man and soon to be father.
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