Tuesday, December 16, 2008

What are friends for?

I have a big problem with trust and I am learning how to actually have and deal with true friends.

Do you have a true friend no matter what happens they will have your back right or wrong? If yes what is your most memorable experience?

12 comments:

columbus ga said...

I have this PARTICULAR friend, whom i am reconsidering our frienddhip. i have his back continoulsy, but The only time i can get in contact wtih him to see how he is doing is when i read this BLOG(which is a cool blog), but i only thought our firendship was better than that. i trusted him enough to know that whenver i needed him he would comfort me with words and conversations(becseu i do the same), but only to find out that he is toooo busy to talk. I still love him like crazy, but only for from faraway. If i dont talk to him for another month, i am positive when he calls i will respond as if we spoke the day prior. That'S a friend, because he knows i am a RIDE/DIE FRIEND TILL THE END!!!!!

columbus ga said...

AT WORK SNEAKING TO COMMENT, 4GIVE THE MISSPELLING.

Roshanda Pearl said...

I think a good friend should be someone that would hold up high as a family.

You all have heard it before it's not like you have come across alot of em in your life time. But i do believe that I have at least 2 and when I need em I can call on em for anything.

Thats the person that should always tell you the truth and let you know when you making fucked up choices.

Me personally I trust people to much. So trust isnt the highest thing on the pole for me when it come to friendship even tho its important.

But its just knowing that you always have my best interest in mind at all times.

ConRonda said...

Good Friend! Ha what is that?????

Roshanda Pearl said...

I think that someone could be a good friend to you and not necessarily be your best friend.

Meaning they always have your best interest in mind.

Dakim said...

best interest explain that. Because there is best interest with what am I getting in return.

StS said...

I think I have a great bunch of friends right now. I have had some experiences in the past with backstabbers and ppl that didnt have my best intentions at heart. I think as you get older, your tolerance changes and weed out the ppl that don't really mean anything to you. My best friend is a guy, but lately we have been struggling bc I have changed a lot in the past 2 yrs .. He feels I am mean and hard, but I think I am being careful & cautious

Dakim said...

hmm why would somone on the outside looking in think your mean and hard?

ConRonda said...

I think we all have a problem with trust.. But is it a really a problem? Being cautious about yourself is fine to me. I don't think you can every really say if someone has your back totally.

I dunno but I hope the friends that I have made in my adult life are ones that I can keep..I don't want to have to hurt nobody

StS said...

Well Dakim .. that's the thing, he is not on the outside, he is my best friend BUT I am in this place right now where my tolerance is very low. I think that I am a little on guard right now.

Dakim said...

STS is your on guard, how can you be available also?

Would you agree that something people's percespection maybe true?

StS said...

I am on guard for foolishness Dakim .. Just trust me, I am ready. Again, I am a woman that knows what she wants :)