What can you tell by what a person drinks?

They were debating about this on the radio yesterday.

A man drink drinking fruit drinks or out of a Martini glass looks femine.

A woman drinking out a beer bottle without a straw looks manish.

What are your thoughts?

What would you call it

Do you think its ok to call the president by his first or last name only?

I was just thinking that's all.....

What do you get a women that has everything?

I hear men complain all the time about how difficult it to buy their women gifts. After a few years of a relationship. You have purchased all the purfume, clothes, shoes and purses you can buy. What you don't get her she gets herself.

On the flip side women complain their man never knows what to get them.

What are your thoughts on that?

Could she be a freak too !!!

My cousin is married and has a girlfriend. They have been together about 1yr. She knows about his wife. Me and his wife are cool considering they have been for 6years.

He is going out tonight and set me up on a blind date with his girlfriend's friend. I told him I'm not interested. My theory is his girlfriend doesn't have many morals. Her friend must not have morals either, Or they would be trying to double date.
Am I disqualifing what could be a good woman that just has a messed up friend?
What do you think?

TO BE OR NOT TO BE

Do you feel that if you have been in a relationship for more then 3 years and marriage isnt part of the equation should you call it quites because where is it really heading are you just wasting your time? Couldnt that time and enegery be put into someone else that is ready to move forward.

Tell me what you think

Once again I was seating around talking with a couple of friends the other night and my sista made and really odd comment...

She doesnt feel that she should be committed to anyone because they dont have a ring on her finger so until somebody steps up to the plate and really wants to make a real commitment she is still going to date other people beside her boyfriend..

Do you think thats a cool way to think nowadays, is this what most of us really feel deep down inside?

What to do for your man on valentine day?

As if shopping for them on their birthdays or christmas wasn't hard enough, what do you get them for this day also? I guess it's pretty obvious now that this is my first valentine. What do you give? I have looked around and everything that companies make is more targeted towards women. Hope that it doesn't sound to crazy....



However, any opinions, besides sex I mean?

How to handle

Ok my home girl just gave me a call listen to the story and tell me how you think she should handle it.


She just a phone call from her dude he states that he needs to stop by the house to drop off somethings. She like cool but you need to stop by the job so you can pick up the keys. His reply was oh I already have a key. brrrrrr..... (very confused)

This strikes her as odd because she never gave him a key....

So she was like a key and where did you get that from he was very casual and like oh I just got it off your other set of keys...

ummmmmmm now how would you feel about something like that.

Why do men think the way they do

I dont know if we have been down this road before but I was talking with a friend last night and he made this comment.

"Having a girlfriend makes me love my wife more"

Can someone breakdown the logic on that one.....

So What Michelle didn't wear a Black designers dress

Do you really care Michelle Obama didn't wear a black designers dress?

If you were in that position would you have worn what you like or took it as an opportunity to support black designers?

The Obama Factor

What are your thoughts on this statement by Jeff Johnson.

... what makes the potential of President Obama different is that he will be in front of the world everyday as a reminder of what we can achieve. The global press will for once actually help the image of the Black male as they cover the White House. However, the President will be many brothers greatest nightmare too, if they choose to be raggedy because sisters will now have a new male model. No longer can a brother say “I was too busy” or “I worked too hard today,” because you already know if Barack could take Michelle to dinner they question becomes, “how come you can’t take me”…and if you President Obama could find time to be with the girls, “what are you doing that is so important?” His example will forever change how we view our potential and because of that,

Will you follow the dream

Were you emotionally charged by having the first African American President?

Do you think the momentum will continue and people will change?

Finally Election Day is Here !!!

Sound off about your feelings on the first African American President being sworn in today..

Men help Ladies and Ladies help men !

These days everybody is coming out with a relationship book and call themselves keeping it real and helping the opposite sex.

Ladies what would you do if you were a man?

Fellas what woudl you do if you were a woman?

Worse Date

Whats the worse date you had?

I'm tired of giving you advice !

How long do you keep giving your friends advice and they continue to stay in the same situation.

Good friend of mines wife is cheating on him, it's obvious to me and him. Being he hasn't caught her he doesn't want to believe it. She treats him like trash and he is constantly coming to me for my advice and opinion. This is my homie, but I'm at the point where I am tried of giving him any info..

What are your thoughts... How long do you keep giving friends advice and they are making the same mistakes?

Life Changing experiences !!

What has been the most life-changing experience you've ever had?

Auction off your body parts?

I know we all heard about the college girl auctioning off her virginity. Which I think is crazy, give me someone experienced

If you had to auction off a part of your body what would it be and why?

Good Morning Happy Wednesday

What helps get your day going?

Reading scriptures, exercising, road rage?

What is a freak ?

GS and I were trying to define this question?

What does it mean with a man or women is a freak?

Speak your mind Friday

Today free your mind about anything...

PORN

Would you go over your girlfriend's sista house and order porn?

Would you order porn at any of your friends house?

Can they be friends?

You meet a guy who is everything you ever wanted in a life-partner: funny, smart, great personality, laughs at your jokes, understands who you are as a human being, etc. You talk to him briefly, and find out that he is even more attractive now that you've spoken to him. You ask him out. You guys had a great time getting to know each other, talks on the phone everyday. Spending time with him is like being in heaven. He makes your toes curl, your stomach knot, and your mouth dry. Yet there is this nagging voice in the back of your mind that says you could be more than friends. You swear that you will tell him how you really feel. Right before you can do this, he tells you:

"I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS"

What do you do at this point? Do you tell him exactly how you feel or do you keep your feelings to yourself and stay friends?

Happy New Year !

Good Morning All !

This should have been my post yesterday.

How was your New Year? What did you do? Let's here the good and the bad?

Presidential Inauguration

Are you planning on making the trip to DC?

Will you watch at home or go to a public setting?

What do you think of all the places charging a fee to watch this historical event?

Questions if your thinking about marriage!

What do you expect your marriage and standard of living to be like after five years?

How long after marriage will you begin having children and how many?

What would you do if you cannot conceive children of your own?

How often do you expect to have sex?

Happy New Year !!!!