What did your parents tell you about sex?

How did you parents talk to you about having sex?

Teens and Vibrators

What age is good for a parent to talk w/their child about self masterbation and vibrators? There has been a lot of talk on news and Oprah that 13 is a good age to introduce girls.

Should the man pay for everything

My mother stated that she blames the women of today for the way man act and treate woman.... She told me that there should never be time when in your courtship that you should pay for anything.  If the man wants to date you or take you out he needs to have the means to do so..

It shouldnt be oh ill pay this time or whatever... I so disagree

Man dont wanna get married

Why do men want to kids and live with you but dont want to be married. Whats up with that?

Should people change you

If people never give you back in return what you dish out should you give your givien spirit.... Or  do you just say GOD will bless me in other ways

Teaching Fellas how to prevent women stalkers

1. Fellas if you do it at her house. Fight the urge to FALL ASLEEP after you get a good one. Give her the homegirl pat on her back, kiss on the cheek and BOUNCE. If at your house, be sure to undress her in one spot. No need spending 20 mins looking for undies wrapped in covers. Advise her to text you when she gets home.

Teachable moment: If the sex was good and your feeling sensitive, you rejected her; she will not want to kiss you. One less stalker in your life

2. Don't.. I mean NEVER ask HOW WAS IT. If she ask how was it. Say"It was decent". Don't call send a one word text "sup"

Teachable moment: You are teaching her not to call at will and your not her man.

3. If she says "I don't normally do this" give her the dry "OK". If she ask "Do you think i'm a hoe" Response, "No, I didn't pay for you"

Teachable moment: If she feels bad it her self esteem not yours. Don't buy into the because your special crap.

Equally Yoked

I was talking with my sister the other day, and she made a stated that when you date you should be equally yoked financially... Meaning if you have a house he needs to have a house if you have a car that person needs to have a car if you make this amount of money then he needs to make something close to that amount. Because if he doesnt he will never feel like man, money will always be a issue. Please tell me how you guys feel about the comment

Name a Song that describe your life

My Friend asked me this question the other day thought it would be something fun to think about 

(Please post the lyrics)

Would you force your son's baby mother to have a DNA test?

If you knew your teenage son was having unprotected sex with multiple girls. If one of the girls got pregnant would you(parent)force the girl to have a DNA test?

HAPPY FRIDAY !

Let's talk about anything.

What do you think about Vick coming home and working construction?

What do you think about the mother that tried to drug her daughter, so the mothers BF could get her pregnant?

What do you think about what you thing about? LOL

IS GOD WORKING ON YOU?

Some people state they are single because GOD is still working on them. Some are unable to find someone to keep them interested. Others refuse to settle.

My theory, alot of us say GOD is working on me. However some don't have the patience to allow GOD to work in and through them. They continue to follow the same or similar paths, get frustrated and discourage when the results are the SAME. They shed a few tears listen to their favorite HEALING gospel song and continue the cycle all over again.

The road less travelled appears to be the hardest route. Yet it can be the most rewarding one. However, we are afraid of change because it may mean; you will not have a SO for a peroid of time, might have give up all that is familar to you and really TRUST GOD. At time we spend more time running from ourselves instead of running to the FATHER.

I remember the hardest thing in my LIFE was to let go of the person I was with for almost 17 years. I knew it was a toxic relationship but it was familar and all I knew at that time. Once I stepped out on faith and let it go in my heart Blessings began to flow. Once you let go of the toxins in your life and seek the kingdom of GOD, that heavy load you carry at times will feel a million pounds lighter. You might have compromise but not settle have on your "standards".

Matthew 6:33
"But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness;and all these things shall be added unto you."

How is GOD working on you?
Are you seeking his kingdom or just WAITING at home for GOD to deliver the things you are praying for (Spouse,house,etc..)?
Do you have the COURAGE to make the CHANGE required to have the LIFE you're PRAYING for?
What brings you peace?

You GO to BED when I GO to BED!!!

I was listening to Mike Basiden yesterday and he was talking about people who MAKE their mate go to bed(not sex) when they go to bed.

A friend says her husband goes to bed at 9pm and she has to go to bed also.

What are your thoughts?
What are your thoughts about person that requires their spouse/BF/GF to go bed with them?
What are your thoughts about the person that listens/follows and go to bed?

Are you will will to carry his/her debt?

You haved worked HARD for what you have. Over the years, you've bought and paid for a few cars(s), have your own home and you're rewarded with a good FICO score of 700 PLUS for your efforts.

You've met someone and they LOOK great, SOUND great and the two of you are REALLY vibing. You've been dating exclusively for a couple of months now, ... and then one night, the topic turns to fiscal responsibility. He/She tells you "Well, I've had a couple of car repos, I've got maybe $10k in bad credit card debt, and some other shyt... so my FICO score is around 400... But, if we get married, I can change all of that!"

So, would you take that step down that aisle or not?

Who taught you about SEX?

was listening to Micheal B. discussion about promiscuous teens today. I also thought about Steve Harvey's book telling women to adopt a 90 day rule. I hear woman say they LEARNED so much from the book. I wonder are the women Steve is talking about, promiscous teens who didn't learn. If that's the case, most women still don't understand and "appreciate" what it means to share their body.

These questions came to mind..
Men/women who taught you about sex? (ex porn, friends, BF/GF, parents..etc)
When did you learn and/or have you learned to appreciate "IT" and not give your body away like you're sharing M&Ms?
What advice would you pass on to teens today who are considering or engaging in sex?

note:For those that say don't do it! Let's keep it real.. "Don't do it.. only works for a small percentage"

FYI: If this has been discussed before pass it by...