Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Odd or not

Would you think something was odd about a dude that only took a bath. Like he didnt really care for the showers?

Am I reading to deep into this issue or should he be looked upon with the side eye?

How to let a man lead

I have a friend that doesn't know how to let a man be a man. She has an A type personality. When she meets a man, its in her nature to take charge and run the friendship this is before they are really dating. She will suggest where they should go, what they should do. She says she doesn't know how to tell a let a man lead.

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Right or Wrong

I have a friend that just got married which is a good thing. But now she is trying to change everything about him. Like she doesent want him going out with his friends and feels like they should spend every birthday holiday or whatever together.

All his boys feel like she is trying to pull him away from the group or that she doesnt like them. But my take on it is that she doesnt want him around people that wont keep his mind family focused and some of you know what im talking about.

Does she trust him yes but we know that men dont always make that right choices....

Would you

If you mate came to you and told you that they wanted to purchase house and you didnt have the money. Would you ask all your closes friend to help you come up with a down payment?

My friend just told me this *hit today and I think that its really crazy but maybe im old school with. Like just save the money until I can do it on my own.

Tell me what you would do

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

What should I do?

(excuse the mispellings. I didn't proof read)

I have a friend that is in the beginning stages of Domestic Violence. Her and her husband are separated, he decided to move out because things aren't working. Being she hasn't ran back to him and for the first time stood up and said no more. They both were wrong in that flirted with other people. When he did it, she had to be ok with it. When she did it, he made it as if the world has stopped.

Now he is trying to move back in, I suggested they stay in separate residences til they work out the issues. She would let he come over and see their daughter but he will decide he is stay and spend the night. I told her to stop allowing him to come over because he is doing it as a way of control. He would come over but tell her he is dealing with other women. (The mind control game). When she decided to stand up and stop allowing him to come and stay at will. He has gotten violent.

I have suggested she speak to someone, she doesn't want to. I have suggested she call the cops, she doesn't want to. I have given her the domestic abuse hotline. '

My questions should I say hey I have done my best and she is choosing not to listen and just step back?

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

What makes a good Kiss?

What makes a good kiss?

Is bad kissing a deal breaker?

Monday, February 2, 2009

Birth Control

My cousin was a teenage mother at the age of 15 she stated that when her child enters high school she is automatically going to put her on the pill. In some ways I feel that it is the wise things to do but on the other handle are you telling her that its ok to have sex?

Love and Relationship

My friend stated that he doesnt want to be in a relationship. Meaning doesnt really want to be committed to anyone... but at the same time he has this one chick that he allows to come over to the house whenever she wants she cooks and cleans waits for him to come home at night around 3 in the morning just everything I think a girlfriend would do without the title.

Is he leading her on? even tho he tells her he isnt ready for a relationship but I feel that his actions are saying something different.

So do you go off of another person actions toward you or do you listen to what they tell you?

Thoughts

Tell me what ya think....

Is it a bad idea to try and rekindle pass relationships?

Ex-boyfriend, Friendship whatever the case my be....